“Enabling people to hide their inflated self-image and to maintain their current life style”, is how Adler described means of safeguarding tendencies. In our everyday lives, Adler’s responses of the safeguarding tendencies are shown to us. Excuses people use for situations or behaviors are in order to try and protect their own self (Feist, J., Feist, G., and Roberts 2013). Excuses, aggression and withdrawal are the three safeguarding tendencies. The most common, and given to us first, is excuses.
Also a distressed resident may distress other residents so I need to know when it is necessary when to take the resident to a safe area so I can calm them quietly and make them feel as secure as I can whilst I ascertain their needs. Or an example of non-verbal might be a resident using eye contact or grabbing me for my attention they may feel insecure or may just need toileting. Hence I need to be observing constantly to help me care for the residents to the best of my ability. Outcome 2 Understand how to meet the communication and language needs,wishes and preferences of an individual 2.1 Explain why
It represents a preoccupation with adhering to rules and established procedures, maintaining a low profile, and blending in with a particular environment to avoid calling attention to ourselves. When we rely on established routines to determine how we do things, we risk losing our sense of being unique and an individual. These styles reflect some of my behavior which probably was inherited by family upbringing and personal friendships over the years. Some of these styles represent me but not all. It is just a snapshot of my personality in time.
Many of these factors boil down to personal beliefs and value systems. We were challenged to look at several examples of good Samaritans, vigilantism, civil disobedience and crimes among professionals. As a team we had to compare our value systems with those who had been involved in each of these situations. In the Good Samaritan cases, we had a general consensus that we would like to be a Good Samaritan. In the vigilantism cases, although we could all relate to the frustration involved for the actors, we all agree that one must stay within the bounds of the law to seek out justice.
English Advanced HSC “UNDERSTANDING NOURISHES BELONGING... A LACK OF UNDERSTANDING PREVENTS IT.” Demonstrate how your prescribed text and ONE other related text of your own choosing represent this interpretation of belonging. It is often in the nature of mankind to be hardwired to develop a sense of connection with one another, and this desire to connect can be described as the need to belong. Belonging refers to the state when one reaches a likeness or similarity – physical, emotional or otherwise, to another unit, for instance a community, place or ideal. However this likeness that is wished to be reached can only be thoroughly done so and encouraged if said person is completely aware of his or her surroundings and can understand the
Dionte' T. Patterson Nerf 6B 9/25/10 After reading the paragraph, I agree with Baldwin's ideas that language is a powerful instrument and that it reveals a persons' private identity due to my personal experience and from what I've learned watching others. Using a single word by itself or putting them together in a sentence can both lead to trouble and can show a persons' true colors and the way that person was raised. James Baldwin states that language is a political instrument, means, and proof of power. This can be proven in society today by the everyday language we use. There are certain words used across the world that are frowned upon.
I am now able to understand why I make the choices that affect my life, such as relationships and the career that I am pursuing. My personality type, ISFJ, also dictates every decision that I make regarding my children’s lives. Being an introvert means that I appreciate my own space and I need time to regroup after being in groups of people. According to the Meyers-Briggs test, “Introverts often prefer solitary activities or spending time with one or two others with whom they feel an affinity, and they often have a calming effect on those around them” (MBTI). All of the women on my mother’s side of the family exhibit this same trait, so it’s no wonder that I exhibit it as well.
Aboujaoude, says “ The greatest minds in the field of human development have stressed the importance of individuation, a process by which people achieve and maintain psychological stability by separating them selves from others.” At this point it seems like Aboujaoude is starting to get off topic, because he starts to incorporate how individuation is good for a person because it separates them from others. However, he does not provide enough information as to how it’s relevant to his opinion on the topic, which is privacy. He no longer explains why privacy is so important, and starts drifting towards individuation, and fails to finish explaining how privacy is so important. He mainly explains why others in the field of human development claim that people separate themselves from others; it doesn’t make sense and confuses the reader, because the young college student was having sexual intercourse with another man, he was not separating himself from
However, we also understand that a lack of connection to a physical place can ultimately prevent us from belonging. Thus, the importance of physical places can clearly be seen in Shakespeare’s As You Like It and Penn’s film Into the Wild. Therefore our understanding of ourselves is clearly linked to our physical environment. An individual’s idea’s of belonging are affected by their attachments with different places. In ‘As You Like It’ this is clearly seen through Orlando’s developing relationship with the Forest of Arden.
Life has its unexpectancies and we have control over how these unexpectancies take over our emotions. As humans we have the choice to let our emotions take over who we really are. Living in fear of judgment and the little imperfections of our daily life causing us to be unhappy, due to the fact we care more of how others perceive us than our own self. Wayne Coyne’s essay “Creating Our Happiness” and Catherine Royce essay “I Always Have a Choice” both describe the internal human emotions to the fullest extent, and both using techniques such as flashbacks and imagery to portray their concept thoroughly to explain how life is but a choice. As if you were living that situation, feeling their pain, happiness, and thinking