"No Code of Silence Among Students Is Worth the Life of Friend or Classmate”

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According to the National Center for Education Statistics reported that each day, 100,000 American students go to school carrying guns. What is even more disturbing is that when you consider how often other students know that these students are bringing guns to school but do not report them. The code of silence is so powerful that most students apparently would not report their gun-carrying peers. Even after the high-profile school shootings of recent years, many students still remain silent or, even worse; dare the shooter to carry out his threats. In a study after the Columbine tragedy, the Secret Service report that, in more than 75 percent of school violence incidents, the attackers had told someone first, yet nobody said anything to school authorities. The code of silence develops from behavior formed during the first years of life. From an early age, kids are taught how to get along with their siblings and friends, how to share, how to be fair and how to play together. They learn to negotiate with others, to cooperation, to compete, to win and to lose. In time, they also learn to manipulate, to be mean, to hurt, to bully, to get even, to discriminate against, and to disobey and a large amount of other negative responses to life’s challenges. Kids learn these “skills” from their peers, their siblings, their parents, television and a whole new generation of computer-based entertainment. Somewhere along the line, they also learn to tattle. Because tattling is self-absorbed and typically is used only to get someone else in trouble, parents often discourage their children from telling on each other, encouraging them instead to get along, and solve their problems without adult involvement. Over time, this unwillingness to tattle develops into a code of silence – an unspoken yet clearly understood commitment to their peers that they will not reveal even the most

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