Conscience Conscience can be defined as that “gut feeling” you have when you know the difference between right and wrong. Some of us have the ability to tell a lie and not feel guilty afterwards, while others can’t handle it and eventually come clean because it is the morally right thing to do. When it comes to our own desires and selfish needs our conscience can often times be manipulated. In Flannery O'Connor's, “A Good Man is Hard to Find” the grandmother showcases her selfishness through a series of events where she lies and manipulates her own family members to get what she wants without ever stopping to think that her actions may not come from the goodness of her heart like she believes. An example of someone who would fess
Human example and influence are also very powerful and can corrupt the mind eager for recognition or that craves to feel wanted and accepted. The morals and values that this type of person has been taught are pushed to the back of his/her mind and become less important than the need to "fit in". Unfortunately for these people, any attention and recognition is sought after, even if it is negative. There is an obvious difference between those who are afflicted with no conscience at birth and those who have one. No amount of moral teaching or love and comfort will keep these people satisfied and happy to be "good".
(2008, Alessandra) I agree with most of this portion of the assessment I do prefer a slower-pace and focus on relationships. I have been told that I am soft-hearted by many of my family members and friends. I however, do not agree that I am indirect or compliant and as my family will attest I am not compliant or acquiescent and when necessary can be extremely assertive. I feel I am a reliable and open person. The assessment gives my strengths as listening, teamwork, reliability and follow-through and my weaknesses as oversensitive, slow to begin action, and poor at goal setting.
Surprisingly” Authentic Experiences With so much emphasis on being honest to others, what ever happened to being true to ourselves? Everyday hustle and bustle leads to the lack of self-reflection from experiences. People miss what an incident truly means and ultimately obscure their view of themselves. Dolly Parton once said “find out who you are and do it on purpose.” Exactly how is one supposed to do that? Since experiences are what ultimately shape an individual, reflecting upon those personal experiences lead to self discovery.
In this I will also be less judgmental, I will understanding that talking about and criticizing people is wrong because you never know their situation. Also in remembering that not every one is as fortunate as I have been blessed to be. In this I will continue to volunteer and mentor
“Thoughtless people are thought less of” “How can one accept assistance freely, when they condemn aid for the needy " “The choices you make today will be retained the rest of your life” “Our actions define our character” “The character of a person can be determined by the worth he places upon others, from whom he cannot receive financial or materialistic gain” “What you say about others doesn't elevate your life, but the good you do for others gives your life meaning and purpose” “A selfish life benefits but one, yet a selfless life has no boundaries” “Apparently and unfortunately, a parent may be the reason prejudice continues” “You will not be remembered for your friendship with the elite, or your familiarity with the famous, but by your treatment of those whose acquaintance will never elevate your status " “A friend will never remember the times he has helped, but only wonder if he has helped enough” “It is better to hear the virtues of your character, than to speak the virtues of your character
Maggie wants them for sentimental value, she admits to putting them to "everyday use." She is not one to use them to show off or place financial values on like her sister would. Maggie and her mother share a unique stand point; they both seem to be very happy and content with their way of life. They are not financially well off, but they are living life to the fullest. Towards
This relates to the truth that people in today’s society are to quick in committing to others without second thought. If everyone had time to self reflect love would be perfect however, nevertheless this is not reality. Society’s judgment is clouded when it comes to real love, the moral in this essay is that we should take the time to get to know ourselves and look for a partner with the same interests, values and good personality rather than what is suggested by media (rich, handsome etc.). Everyone wants to be loved but true love is something special and should not be taken for
Looking forward in our lives, we should not think of the future and the trials that will come which will discourage us and weaken our mental health. We should instead look at the future and the positive opportunities it can bring. By doing this we strengthen our minds through grabbing the reins of our emotions and refusing to be ruled by them. (Emotions are unstable and unpredictable, it is nearly impossible to have a strong and structured life with a foundation that moves like a raging sea.) We can practice going against our own nature by focusing on the blessings we have been given in life, which can be as simple and common as the breath each of us has the ability to partake of.
Self-respect to me means respecting myself above all else. I t means honoring my values and principles before anyone and anything else. It means trusting myself to say and do only what feels true and honoring. Listening to and respecting that precious little voice inside when it feels a little fearful or unsettled. Sometimes respecting me can make other people angry, frustrated, disappointed, and hurt because they want to be