Mrs. Earnshaw was ready to fling it out of doors, without having done anything to deserve rejection; Heathcliff is made to feel like an outsider after Mr. Earnshaw’s death and suffers cruel mistreatment by Hindley. In these formative years, he is deprived of love, sociability and education, according to Nelly, Hindley's treatment towards Heathcliff was "enough to make a fiend of a saint". He is separated from the family, reduced to the status of a servant, forced to do farm work. Personality that Heathcliff develops in his adult life has been formed in response to the deprivation of his childhood. He is quite vengeful in nature, and he is also stubborn and steadfast he does whatever he sets his mind to.
Sechser says, "strong powers would make more potent threats since they can threaten especially severe punishment for non-compliance" (p. 627, para 1). Therefore, if one knows their boss has followed through on past threats, they would more than likely keep quiet. There doesn't seem to be much openness for communication when there is coercive power involved. Reward power is when one agrees and complies so they can benefit from the positive rewards for doing so (Robbins & Judge, 2009). These rewards could mean promotions, recognition, or bonuses (Robbins & Judge, 2009).
Vanity is the building up of oneself, boosting the ego and confidence, in order to make one feel more important. In the grand scheme of things, the role of one average human being compared to that of the higher ranking beings may seem a trivial matter. It may make one feel small, depressed, and useless. By being vain, it gives one a feeling of purpose, a love of how one is. Vanity and self-delusion provide a means of protection from the despair that lurks throughout ones life.
These children are more prone to have battles with depression during their adolescent years and continue these struggles into adulthood. When a person tells his or her family that they are getting a divorce the first reaction is usually “what about the children?” When an unhealthy family environment is present, divorce can be a better alternative despite the consequences it has on the children involved. Children who are raised in a family where there is constant turmoil experience sever physiological issues into their adult life. (Warshak, 2010) The aftermath of a divorce, when compared, sounds very similar to the effects that staying in an undesirable family environment can have on a child. In this paper we will examine the effects of divorce and the implications of staying in an unhealthy marriage.
The abused often has such low self esteem they feel like it is not worth it to leave. Maybe they think that no one actually cares. I feel like it can really important to hold yourself high because of examples like that. People often follow one of two different behaviors and attitudes when acting socially with other people. High self-monitors can be more socially accepting.
Does her inner power stem from her horrible situation in childhood? Because she was an orphan and she had to take care of herself to survive the aggression from her cousin and her relatives always bullied her? Her aunt couldn’t stand her, she behaved unjustly and prioritized own children. She couldn’t understand why Jane is so savage and rebellious, but she wanted only better treatment and her independent soul couldn’t deal with it. However at the time Jane was ten years old, she opposed her evil aunt Reed and she told her what she thought about her despotic upbringing.
Child Abuse and Neglect: Summary. Child abuse is a crucial part of the law in todays society. When asked to define child abuse what do you think of? I think of a child being beaten to near death or maybe even deprived of food sources that they need to survive. The child could also feel a sad disappointed feeling because their parent won’t give them the attention a child should be receiving or a child could just be being neglected all together possibly by the parent just not caring, but I will tell you all about these things in my paragraphs below.
“It aggravates the average viewer because, how can a parent put their child through that emotional roller coaster and get upset when they do not win; make up excuses on why their child did not win because heaven forbid their child has a flaw. Child beauty pageants are upsetting to the child also because if they do not win it is like the end of the world. They throw fits and act like complete brats, and they think that maybe their parents are lying to them because their parents tell them that they are beautiful but now the judges and other people who did not vote for them to win are saying in not so many words that they are ugly.” (Adams- personal communication. March 12, 2011.) Children’s beauty pageants consist of modeling sportswear, evening attire, dance and talent.
“You never get what you deserve unless you are worth the best of it.” (C.R. Ronald ) It is human nature that he never keeps a balance between himself and his surrounding matters. People have different views about others…some are always underestimated. People might infer different points from rating them good or bad, but I’d say that it is better for one to be underrated by the people than to overrate them. In our daily life we can observe that if a person is undervalued in his society, he or she tries to set up a good status by refining his or her abilities.
Although one may not want to be underrated, for me it is still better than to be overrated. Being overrated, people are bound to disappoint people when they do not meet the expected demands. Not only that, when people are overrated, they might also feel complacent with their work, false-believing that they are satisfied with what they do and when they fail, they have to cope with such disappointment in themselves and also others. Contrastingly, being underrated channels the idea that people will be surprised in a good way. When one is underrated, he can strive to become better, to prove others wrong and reveal his full potential, and should it fail, there is nothing to lose.