Marriage Today vs. Marriage in 1800s

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There are many differences between marriage today and marriage in the 1800’s. The mere idea of marriage is very different these days. Today, people value marriage in a different way than the way people did back in the day. The reasons for this change rely mainly in the way religion, women rights, and the meaning of love have transformed during the year and changed from generation to generation. In the 1800’s, religion played a much more important role in people’s lives, women had a very specific role in the family, and the meaning of love was much deeper. According to the Library of Congress, “Between 1700 and 1740, an estimated 75 to 80 percent of the population attended churches, which were being built at a headlong pace”. Consequently, the more religious people were the more value they put on the word marriage and its biblical meaning of bringing two souls into one and creating and building a family. Interestingly enough, the common age for teen girls’ to marry in the 1800’s was not any different than today. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, “In 1840, the "Average Age at First Marriage" for women is estimated to be between 21 and 22 years of age.” However, despite the similarity in age, it is clear that most people do not necessarily choose to have a religious wedding in the church and even if they do in many cases it is just to satisfy the grandparents or a not-so-meaningful ceremony that people “just do.” Additionally, the role of women has changed since the 1800’s. Back then, women had a very limited yet important role in the family life. Women’s first role was childbearing and an overall responsibility for the household while men were going to work and support the family. Today, it is clear that women’s role have changed. Although women still do have the burden of childbearing and taking care of the children in many cases, women still are very
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