Love in Valentine by Duffy

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Examine the ways that Duffy presents the nature of love and relationships between men and women in her poem Valentine. Duffy presents the nature of love and relationships as complex, more so than “a cute card” as love can “blind you with tears” from the pain it can cause. As we know this poem was made for Valentines Day, a day where most people see love as “a red rose”, but Duffy uses this “to be truthful”, no matter how hard it is she wants to be honest and reveal the power and control love has on men and women. In Valentine Duffy is keen to destroy notions of superficial love, as she believes that the giving of “a red rose or a satin heart” is just a love on the surface with no real meaning or love in it. Duffy indicates that the traditional gifts on Valentines Day are not good enough as they do not allow you to reveal true affection or love for someone. Whereas the giving of “an onion”, although is not classed as a traditional gift, is a gift that is powerful and unique. It can be carefully undressed from its many layers “like the careful undressing of love” in all the stages of a relationship. Duffy presents to us in the middle that she is “trying to be truthful” as she knows that no one else, especially on this day, will be, they will think of love in all its glory and no pain. The truth is though, “it will blind you with tears” and “make your reflection a wobbling photo of grief” as it will take over your whole body, leaving you with nothing but pain if you lose it. Duffy uses single lines to present the traditional gifts, separating them from the rest of the poem, where these gifts do not belong, as they do not present true love and all that comes with it. The poem encourages us to think about the nature of love in new and unexpected ways, this presents a realistic view of love and relationships. Duffy uses powerful, even violent words to present
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