A lustful relationship only involves a physical attraction. Both love and lust show similarities in craving someone in a sensual way. Unlike lust, in love, people invest more emotional ties. Lust carries no emotional attachment, proving the assumption that lust is better than love. With lust, no one has to worry about other people’s feelings being hurt or even a broken heart.
Why is the era spreading the essence of breaking trust? There is a tendency of attraction between people in naturally. Because of social and religious restrictions, people keep control of this tendency. It is impossible to find what a human mind truly desire, what the heart is always quenching for. It is impossible for anyone to find the right partner, with whom you can always be happy.
There is an over-exaggerated passion between Catherine and Heathcliff that does not occur in Cathy and Hareton’s relationship. Theses two relationships are not only in different generations, but are completely different in the ways that the lovers interact and treat one another. The older Catherine and Heathcliff have a very violent relationship while younger Cathy and Hareton have a much softer one. Although, Heathcliff would never hurt his beloved Catherine, his love for her is extremely passionate and leads to his transformation, becoming a violent person. For
Love at first sight- Does it exsist??? Do I believe in love at first sight? Unfortunately no I don’t. There is scientific evidence stating that there is love at first sight but I just believe it is lust at first sight and not love. You cannot love a thing which you have no idea about, you may love there looks the way they walk and things like that but you can never actually love them properly, love grows over time of knowing the person and even though they act like the person on their outside they may not be the same person on the inside they may act all hard but actually on the inside they are a big softie who cry’s all the time.
Love is perhaps the most actively sought moral objective of one's life. And though marriage is often thought to be the logical consequence of love, it is Oscar Wilde's contention in his satire, The Importance of Being Earnest, that love begets bliss and marriage thwarts this course of bliss. Algernon Moncrieff spends very little time falling in love and the rest of the time striving toward engagement. Wilde demonstrates through him that once one becomes intent upon achieving a goal, the individual's motivation becomes a matter of action rather than truth. Algernon is no longer driven by a moral objective; instead, he becomes intent upon achieving a societal standard.
These forces that drive people to behave or feel a certain way are not associated with the positive when dealing with the romantics. Pain and suffering also go along with love and passion. Catherine, Heathcliff and Hindley are very passion driven. Romantic love has several forms in Wuthering Heights but the relationship between Heathcliff and Catherine expresses itself and romanticism the most. Their love expresses the longing to be whole, to give oneself completely yo another and to be loved like they do for an eternity.
Touchstone is a character who has an individual opinion on the idea of love. His idea is unromantic, but practical. This can be seen in the following quote, “ by how much defence is better than no skill, by so much is a horn more precious than to want.” In this quote, touchstone implies that it is better to be cheated on rather than to have no woman at all and go on unsatisfied. This shows his practicality and also shows how he is quite selfish when it comes to love. “ he is not like to marry me well and, not being well married it will be a good excuse for me hereafter to leave my wife” , this quote illustrates his unromantic portrayal of love, as he is willing to go through great measures to avoid being tied down to one woman.
The Oxford Dictionary’s first and most basic definition of love is, “An intense feeling of deep affection” (Oxford). With this definition being the trunk for the tree of love, there are branches representing the different kinds of love. These separate branches relate to the various relationships we share with the people in our lives. The definition of love should have an inclusion based on the three different levels of love humans have with one another: romantic, friendship, and family. Romantic love is the type of love one feels for their significant other, boyfriend/girlfriend, spouse, or lover.
Because modern humans are alienated from each other and from nature, we seek refuge from our aloneness in romantic love and marriage (pp. 79–81). However, Fromm observes that real love "is not a sentiment which can be easily indulged in by anyone." It is only through developing one's total personality to the capacity of loving one's neighbor with "true humility, courage, faith and discipline" that one attains the capacity to experience real love. This should be considered a rare achievement (p. vii).
Most people get into a relationship based off of passion or attraction, including the rewards, but when time and stress wears the excitement down, excitement is sought elsewhere. Often the cheater was never truly in love, or never intended to make love work in the first place, and pretty much had the expectation of being pleased. I have been cheated on and I did my fair share of cheating too. The feeling I felt cannot be explained. I cheated because I did not feel appreciated and I was being recognized elsewhere.