My friends are constantly asking why I care what others think and I still haven’t really figured that out yet. Maybe it’s because of my insecurities, or because all I really want is to accepted. I guess a lot of factors and life experiences contribute to how I feel about others opinions. Everyone is like that; they act and treat people certain ways for different reasons. Every one acts the way they do because of something that has happened in their life.
COM200: Interpersonal Communication (GSL1211B) Wandering Hands It is without doubt that throughout the whole movie of Crash, it is riddled with many examples of interpersonal conflict. It is a common factor that race, religion and sex have a major impact on the way people communicate with each other, whether it is negative or positive. It seems as though in this day in age, everyone is quick to stereotype and judge the person next to them. We may be like this because of past experiences or simply because we do not know any better. You will find that when interpersonal conflicts are handled effectively, the likeliness of a positive outcome is imminent.
Procrastination is damaging the careers, health, and there economics for most Americans who are not enthusiastic of what’s surrounding them. In the article “I’ll Do It Tomorrow” by Trisha Gura Gives us examples of how people procrastinate and results in having a negative punishment. Procrastination makes it worse when you are in a place where it’s an obligation of you’re part to complete what is assigned to you. Some people rather play with there finger nails, with there pen, or look at other things that would make time go faster and overlook the gadget assigned to you. Procrastination has been around as long as humankind has been existing, but the only deference is the way we are being punished.
There are many barriers and challenges that I face daily within my job with regards to communication. I work alongside people that are on the autistic spectrum and they take things you say to them literally so I need to be sure that I do not use sentences like – I will be with you in a minute or your parents will drop in later as the person I am communicating with will become anxious or distressed when what I have communicated does not literally happen. I work alongside people also that can display challenging behaviours and I need to ensure that the communication used with that person will not increase their anxieties which could lead to harm to themselves or others. With these people I have worked closely with the specialist support team to develop positive support plans which detail a consistent approach for staff to follow and detail precise ways to communicate with the individual depending on what behaviours they are presenting. Another barrier that I face is sensory impaired customers I have support people who have no sight and another that has poor hearing and the way in which you communicate with these people has to differ from how I normally communicate.
In order to have a friendship that works or is healthy you have to argue sometimes to better understand the other person. This includes taking the time to see the full picture from time to time and actually setting yourself and your feelings aside for someone else. For example, if a friend told me he was having trouble concentrating on his studies and I just told him everything he was doing wrong that wouldn’t benefit him at all. However, if instead of throwing all my advice on him I just listen and ask questions I could see the complete picture and understand what the problem could be I could offer some help. This gives him confidence and allows him to be able to work on the problem without feeling ashamed.
My experiences have been horrifying. People who endure dissonance always seem to come out shaped or changed by their experiences. The consequences the individuals face from encountering conflict forever transform their thoughts, beliefs and their lives. Quite often the noticeable physical damage an individual has been through can conceal the emotional trauma they are suffering. The physical injury gives survivors something to hide behind.
When I came upon this topic, it easily applied to my marriage and other relationships of many other friends and/or family members. Each type of relationship comes with listening barriers that are due to-but not limited to-emotions, inattentive interaction, wrong or unclear assumptions, life distractions, and selective perception; no matter how small an interaction, personal relationships are deeply effected through these barriers of communication. Personal relations are fragile and they require maintenance through each stage of development. No relationship has immunity to listening barriers as each type of relationship has communication errors due to human tendencies. All relationships have potential listening barriers that need to be worked through, ranging from acquaintances to marriage partners.
There are many other factors that cause accidents. Some of the key elements that drivers give attention away from the road are as follows: eating drinking, reaching for a fallen object, applying make-up and talking to passengers. Cellular phones are useful but at the same time present danger for everyone. This is why I agree the use of cell phones should be prohibited. While the usage of cell phones is obvious, there are instances where they are used to report suspicious activity in the area.
Often we react quickly to emotionally charged words or subjects. Internally we think of ways to respond to the speaker and argue our position. In this process we often quit listening to what is being said. We make judgments and respond to those judgments as if the speaker’s position were accurately known to us. Criticisms from supervisors and peers often are met with emotional listening resistance.
From all the findings from previous research and the study carried out, it is suggested that there is a correlation between attention and forgetfulness. Introduction Delays of attention are a part of everyone’s life. Some of these are simply inconvenient, such as missing a turn-off on the road, and some of these are extremely serious, such as failures of attention that cause accidents, injury, and loss of life (Robertson, 2003). The relation between mind-wandering and affective dysfunction has been recognised for some time (Watts and Sharrock, 1985). Recent research has raised the prospect that somewhat small everyday lapses of attention can have significant penalties with regard to one’s emotional state, and may even lead to emotional dysfunction.