Lets Stay Together

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All of our lives people search for the perfect mate so you will have your happily every after fairy tale life. What we do not realize is once we find that perfect person we want to be with, we have to work to stay together and it is not an easy task. It is work to find a mat and work to keep that person. No matter how bad a relationship g you can always find a way to make it work or get past the trial and tribulations a relationship brings. But people these days do not do that, they are so quick to go and file for a divorce. You have to be willing to have good times as well as bad while spending your life with the one you love. In this essay I will discuss having communication, trust, honesty, compromise and similar religious beliefs so you can have a healthy relationship with your partner or spouse. As well as some reasons why people may disagree with my argument. You can have a happy and healthy relationship for the rest of your life if you are willing to put in time and effort. Communication is key. “Stated differently, communication is effective to the extent that we are able to minimize misunderstandings”(Gudykunts,Nishida).Some of the most basic things go into having a good relationship. Things that we learn as little kids can be applied to a relationship. Can you imagine how awkward it would be to be in a relationship with someone that you never spoke to or every conversation you had was just dry? When we do not speak and say what is on our mind we leave our partners mind to wounded. They interpret the situation in the best way that they can which can lead to misunderstandings. So sometimes they may assume the best and other times they may assume the worst. We do not have the ability to read a persons mind, so if you have any problems you must talk about them. Say what is on your mind, it does not matter if it is good or bad. Do not keep quiet about things
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