Jeff Klien Essay

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In Jeff Klein’s essay “Watching my back” conveys the ever changing role of men and women in today’s society. Where women are seen as delicate flowers but when in danger they can turn into savage warriors. Jeff Klein’s story takes off when a stranger approaches him and his girlfriend and tries to attack them. Klein was startle by his attacker. On the other hand, his girlfriend takes a more assertive position to try to persuade the attacker to leave, without any success. Luckily, a couple came to their rescue. After the incident Klein was impressed of his girlfriend new found courage. Klein mentions that his girlfriend had taken a self defense class. He acknowledges that he never ponder the idea that one day his leading lady will be watching his back. Klein seems to like that idea. Comparing society to a ballroom dance were men used to lead and women ever so graciously follow. When did the change of roles occur and what are the expectations? In addition, what are the contributions that men and women can made in a relationship. Furthermore, how can those contributions lead to a healthy relationship? The roles of men and women have been defined by society for centuries. A men’s role is to be the sole breadwinner of the family. Women depend on men for protection and financial reasons. Women on the other hand, have a “diminutive” role in society. Their role is to get marry and raise a family (if you can call that a diminutive role). Nowadays, these roles have become more flexible. The men’s role still requires him to work in order to support the family. Major changes happen in women. Most women no longer depend on men for financial reasons or for protection. As we can see in Jeff Klein essay his girlfriend doesn’t need protection. “.. My girlfriend had just completed and advanced self defense course. She was standing on my left... I could hear her firmly addressing the
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