Is Romeo The Ideal Husband?

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Does Romeo have what it takes to be the ideal husband? Are there any aspects of his personality that could stand in his way of becoming a good husband? I definitely don’t think so because his immaturity, implusiveness, and selfishness would stand as major obstacles that would not let him become a good husband. Romeo’s level of immaturity is a trait of his that indicates he will not be a good husband/partner. First and foremost, Romeo becomes very depressed when Rosaline does not return his love. Montague is quoted saying, “Away from light steals home my heavy son and private in his chamber pens himself (1,1,127).” The aforementioned quote says that Romeo locked himself up in a dark room for days simply because a girl did not return his love. Matured adults never lock themselves up in a room because their love was not returned. They might do that if they just got out of a serious long-term relationship and are trying to forget about the person they loved truly. This shows that Romeo still has to mature mentally and that his level maturity will hinder him from becoming a good husband. Secondly, Romeo was having a very had time trying to forget Rosaline. He was quoted saying, “O, teach me how I should forget to think” in reply to Benvolio, who asked him to forget about Rosaline (1,1,221). Although Romeo could not stop thinking about Rosaline, he fell in love with Juliet upon first sight. When he saw Juliet for the first time at the feast, he said, “For I never saw true beauty till this night (1,5,53).” The fact that he was able to forget about Rosaline so quickly proves that he thinks similarly to typical teenagers and is yet to mature. Teenagers like Romeo always have hard time making up their minds because at this age, they are not mentally stable. In addition, Romeo’s immaturity is portrayed through his decision of marrying Juliet so quickly. Just after a few
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