Hadia Nouria Bendelhoum Dr. David Hinckley English- 1A 29 November 2011 Arranged Marriage Through Cultures To Westerners who put a lot of emphasis on love and marriage or “love before marriage,” love is the only thing you need to be happy. But for societies who believe that arranged marriages will last forever, love can take the back seat, for the time being at least. Arranged marriages make up vastly the higher percentage in human history, but have recently become unusual and morally questioned in the Western world. These types of marriages still occur within Western culture, but mostly within the immigrant communities. For some cultures, arranged marriages are viewed as a social and economic necessity, the terms of which are agreed upon by the families of the future bride and groom.
However this bold assumption does not take into account the realities of love or. Love in itself is not a static feeling or engagement with another person. Love changes, it can grow or fade over time and by branding arranged marriages as intolerable we are locking the doors to all those who have and will found love in marriages that may at first not have solely been based on this emotion. In relation to women, many may feel that they are unfairly forced into these marriages by misogynistic fathers who marry them off for their own personal gain. Realistically this is sometimes the case and in such scenarios arranged marriages should not be tolerated, but not because of the concept of the marriage itself, but because everyone should have a free and fair choice in matters that concern them.
They are the person who takes care of their children and shape their children's future and reproduce the perfect citizens of our world. In my opinion, women should not allow to work. Firstly, I think that there might be emotional imbalance and mental tension pervade women by going to job. Secondly, women also might not spare enough time to the family due to which negligence of children and husband might take place. This indirectly effects the relationship between husband and wife, children and mother, etc.
Arranged Marriage In the Western Society we are not accustomed to the idea of arranged marriage. And the reason of that is because we are privileged with the right to be able to choose our own spouse to marry. We grow up with the idea of true love in our head and we are able to choose our life companion. But what about those who do not grow up believing that they can choose their own loved one? How exactly do arranged marriages work, and what is the concept behind it?
Causes Of Divorce From the past to present, people all over the world have been determined to live together, which is called “getting married” in another word, so that they depend on each other for living. Nevertheless, some couples are unable to maintain their relationship; therefore they choose divorce, which is one of the solutions to cope with problems between a husband and wife. Furthermore, most people think carefully before they get married. However, the divorce rates trend to continually increase nowadays, thus it might be argued that divorces can be taken place easier than the past. There are also two effects of the recent increase of divorce rates: negative effects and positive effects.
For people who are not married, the questions focused around how they like not being married and would they rather be married. There’s a good balance of people who want to be married versus those who don’t, most of which did plan on getting married when they were younger. Three times as many people haven’t been married before as people who have been married at all. Those who have all said it ended with a divorce. The majority said that they are quite happy not being married, and the results for how much happier would they be if they got married are spread.
Marriage versus Living Together Verletta Williams Everest Online University I have done both and I know a live in relationship can retain as much or more love, permanency and stability then a lot of marriages. Really it depends on the people in the relationship. You cannot honestly on a board bases say which is better or more committed. Other would say that there are two types of living together; those that are engaged and living together for a brief time before marriage and those that live together without definite plans of marriage. Some live together before marriage has poor communication skills with each other, which in turn affects their relationship with one another.
There are many definition of an arranged marriage. There are many extremes of this practice. One of the more benign forms of arranged marriages is when two individuals have been introduced by each other’s families for the purpose of arranging their marriage, and yet, either one of the individuals can veto the marriage and back out of the arrangement. It should be noted that even in these more benign cases the family and cultural pressure to get married may be so great that the individuals might not back out for fear of disappointing their parents. In some cases, the young people look forward to their
Once you are married, you have to face life with your husband or wife and not alone. Imagine a girl or a boy who are happy with their children? What will gonna happen to their family if they are only given just a span of time to be with each other? You are selfish if that’s the case because you are only thinking about your emotions and forget about those who will suffer once your marriage expires. Now tell me, you do not feel any love towards your partner that is why you want it to expire?
There will be unexpected pregnancy although they have done enough security measure. In some cultures, couples would get married since pregnancy is occurred. Since some of couples do not expect they will get marriage; therefore, the rate of divorce and single parent increases after they break up. Secondly, opponents strongly argue that they need to test the degree of premarital sex with two sides before they get married. Since some of men will not take responsible