How Social Media Made Us Narcissists Summary

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Lashawnda Frazier English 100 In Kimberly Walker article, entitled “How social media made us Narcissists”, she states “we’re all guilty, it seems like social media has pushed us all into steamy love affairs with ourselves.” According to Carol Craig, a social scientist and chief executive of the Centre for confidence, “young people in Britain are taking cue from alleged wide spread arrogance in the U.S.” He also states, “The way that children are being educated is focusing more and more on…show more content…
Humans are supposed to be social. The more time students spend on social sites, the less time they spend socializing in person. Because of the lack of body signals and other non-verbal cues, like tone and inflection, social networking sites are not an adequate replacement for face to face communication. “Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just has hard.’’ (Anne Spencer) Students who spend a great deal of time on social networking sites are less able to effectively communicate in person. Social networks reduce or eliminate face to face socialization. Individuals are free to create a fantasy person and can pretend to be someone else. It is hard to say no, be rude, or ignore someone when you are looking them in the eye. It’s incredibly easy and quick to unfriend or unfollow someone or simply block their efforts to make a connection. Just one click of the mouse and your problems are over. Unfortunately, this feature of online socialization cheats people of the opportunity to learn how to resolve conflict in the world outside the internet and it could retard or cripple one’s social…show more content…
Those who shy away from doing so are unlikely to be on Facebook or Twitter, if they are, their accounts will likely be sitting unloved and untouched. Than you have the individuals that detail every single aspect of their life. No matter how dull or uninteresting it may be. Social networks bring out this side in many people, turning them into crashing bored who will detail what they ate for breakfast and the manner in which their body expelled it several hours later. I have notice that Facebook catalysis people’s search for attention. The little things like getting a comment or feedback becomes addictive, leading to more Attention Seeking (“OMG can’t believe what just happened!”). Status and what people say they’re up to doesn’t really reflect who they are or what’s really happening in their lives. It’s the most superficial skim of a person’s

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