I don’t like when I explode. Especially, when it’s a situation I cannot control. I have thoughts that maybe I am the problem. Sometimes I wonder if my temper is the problem or maybe I am jealous that I am not the one with the authority. However, these are my challenges that I am sure I have to work on to become to stronger.
When I hear it in movies or in a song is when it is least annoying because all I have to do to avoid hearing the word, is distance myself from these things that I know have this kind of vulgar content. I also realize that there are situations when people do not know my beliefs and are not aware of how offensive the word really is. To them, it may be just another derogatory word that is a part of their everyday vocabulary. It’s in these times that consider how I don’t know how they were
I know that many times people who say they are my friends will encourage me to do something that could mean trouble later. I can do my own thinking. Letting my friends push me into inappropriate behavior only means that I care more about what others think than I do about myself as an individual and that I do not have control over my own life. I know what the consequences may be and I must be willing to act responsibly. Perhaps I just let like acting up.
When I ended in a sentence format, people didn’t necessarily feel the need to say anything to me. When I ended in a question format, it definitely made people not only answer my questions, but add some additional comments. At times I felt as if they themselves felt the need to ask me questions in return. More banter was obtained this way. I also observed that when I continued talking without pausing much, people tended to not hear everything that I had to say.
What may seem obvious to you may not be so to someone else. Many feuds start with just a misunderstanding, so talking things out can be a simple way to avoid a conflict to begin with. When you are constantly around someone that you can't stand you're often very edgy and on the verge of having a freak out at any minute, so it's good to have someone that you can vent to. Whether it's calling your mom, texting your best friend, talking to your therapist, or like me, venting to your academic coach, it's important to have someone to talk to. Talking to someone helps getting your frustration out and will help
I’m not an exception, there are a lot of things make me happy and also which can make me angry. What does make me lose my temper is when people take advantage of me, when you give them a finger and they take the whole hand. I’m angry when people don’t appreciate the things that are given to them, like family, food, shelter and love. I become really mad with people who can't keep their promise, betray me, gossip behind my back or touch my things without asking. Moreover, the worst thing to me is being insulted without knowing the reason.
The problem with my pseudo thinking is that when it comes time for me to have a response I have no clue what was said during the conversation because the only thing I focused on was the topic of discussion. My defensive listening has put me in bad situations with many people, mostly with my wife, I lash out at people because I feel threatened and with my lack of attention I miss parts of the conversation, and that makes it that much more like I am being attacked. Everyone can increase attention by realizing its importance, avoiding the common tendency to day dream, fighting the tendency to give in to
Nowadays people don’t like when other people are in their business. Usually when they get caught in the act of doing the opposite they tend to get hurt. So by applying these rules it will keep you out of trouble and safe. Nobody uses these “unofficial” rules. While some people are not using these rules, a lot of other people are using this rule.
How can one try to mend a broken relationship? There so many problems and clashes between me and my partner. Sometimes rage and anger takes control, what is the solution for all of that? I feel that progress of a clash and discovering a method to take away the clash results in a more desirable relationship. Folks who recall problems as part of relationship are usually not effected by way of any issues.
I even asked my dad to stop it, but he said “Once you enter something, it’s really hard to turn your back on that”. So I kept my mouth shut. There are moments when I get tired hearing words like “you have to be like this, do this, change this, and be good and more”. It’s really so frustrating as time goes by. It’s as if you don’t have freedom to do stuffs you really want to do, because people are looking at you, Even though you don’t know them, they act as if they really know you, and one mistake can change everything.