God vs. the Secular World: Dating and Mating

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Things in aqua are questionable… Not sure when your quotes start? God vs. The Secular World: Dating and Mating Shelby Uhler Psych 101 Professor Peniche August 29, 2012 The secular world’s view and God’s view of the dating and mating process are core opposites. The world’s view is so skewed and trashed by man’s opinions and feelings of what he thinks is the right process. The world believes it is alright to go outside God’s boundaries for dating, and have sexual relations. The secular world says, “If it feels good, do it!” They base true love off of a feeling and I believe that is why there are so many divorced single adults today. However, God directs us to date in a manner, in which we keep ourselves pure, and build our relationship off of a God Bible-based foundation. Courtship is considered a Godly way of dating. It requires a commitment with intentions to marry in the future. Lastly, God teaches mating should be in the boundaries of marriage, because it is a sacred act and gift from God. First of all, the world has been full of sin since the Fall of Adam and Eve (Genesis 3:1-13 New International Version). Therefore, dating and mating has been taken out of context ever since that time. In the world today, dating is characterized as fun and exciting and is done for companionship instead of being treated as a serious activity for the purpose of finding a life-long mate. More and more people, each generation seek dating, rather than seek long term relationships, because of lack of commitment, fear of taking a risk, and pressure to fit in with society (http://www.helium.com/items/1420570-why-people-dont-marry-any-more). They also think it is alright to have sex before marriage, because they say it feels right at the moment. They do not realize the consequences, until it is too late. The secular world is addicted to romantic love, not a true binding love.
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