FATHER/SON RELATIONSHIP Blacky’s relationship with his father is integral in moulding the adolescent that he is. Although the relationship between the two is clearly negative, it somewhat helps him to look past the fatherly influences, and to seek positive role models to assist him through the journey to maturity. Blacky’s self-esteem levels are low due to the negative relationship and he expects no support from his father. His relationship with his mother, the relationships he develops with other men assist Blacky in developing the courage to stand up for what he believes in. During the course of the novel of ‘Deadly Unna?’ the readers are exposed to the negativity between the father and his son.
Although the changes in Gil are progressive throughout the movie, he ultimately reaches generativity through providing nurture and guidance to his children. This is especially apparent in his relationship with his son Kevin, who’s school expressed concerns of his emotional problems and wanted to transfer him to a special education school the following year. It is obvious that Gil desperately wanted to leave a legacy of himself behind to Kevin, yet gets
Adam has finally has his father and son moment with one of his children that he is grateful to express himself to his son Cal. By saying he trusts Cal he has gain even more love and forgiveness for not being with his children for many years. Plus, Adam is able to not be like his father but instead be the opposite with just one of his children. Cal – “He though sardonically of telling him about his mother, to see how he would handle I, but he withdrew the though quickly. He didn’t think Aron could handle it at all,” (Steinbeck 586).
James does not know truly who he is, mainly because he is “dark skinned” while his mother is “light skinned”. But as he grows older, James is influenced by his mother, and her faith in God. Not only does this help James become closer to his mother, but it helps him start to notice who he really is. James’ step-father, Hunter Jordan, also influences him by showing James that hard work is worth it, and it takes a lot of work to support a family as big as they had. This assisted James notice that he has the ability to become anything that he wants to, and he just has to work hard and not lose his determination.
The point is that an alcoholic not in recovery should be nowhere near a young child or in any committed relationships until sober. The novel is also peppered with horrific flashbacks of abuse at the hands of Jack’s father. Because of the trauma he experienced, it is as hard for Jack to be a normal father as it is for a normal father to strike his son; quite difficult. “In those days it did not seem strange to Jack […] that his own love should go hand-in-hand with his fear […]” (http://www.shmoop.com/shining-stephen-king/family-quotes-3.html). This quote is a perfect illustration of how Jack’s sense of what a relationship should be like is irreversibly altered.
Three characters openly state their prejudice against the accused boy because of his background. The 3rd Juror is prejudiced against him because of the antagonism between himself and his own son: “I think we’d be better off if we took these tough kids and slapped ‘em down before they make trouble, you know?” The 10th Juror believes, “These people are born to lie. Now, it’s the way they are and no intelligent man is gonna tell me otherwise. They don’t know what the truth is…They are different. They act different.” The 4th Juror has similar beliefs to the 10th Juror: “This boy, let’s say he’s a product of a filthy neighbourhood and a broken home.
The truth of the matter is that is not always the case, think about how many children are born into unstable families born into the street life or those abandoned by those who cannot care for a child. They had no control over what they were born into; as I previously stated, war veterans who fought to protect this country who have developed psychological issues that deter them away from maintaining in everyday American life. The negative bias around this population is unfair and unjust; even though this group may receive more attention than some special populations, this is a demographic that needs all the help they can
The root of high crimes in America can be due to a variety of things. Many factors play a huge role on this. One of the causes that add to the crimes is probably broken families. When broken families exist children tend to look for support elsewhere and the places they find are not the best ones for example, gangs. A single mother can try her hardest to keep a child away from making bad decisions, but if the mother doesn’t have any type of family support, chances are the child will guide himself to other unsafe, and unhealthy resources.
The question that most of our psychologist wonder, Can a man be destined to live of crime at there birth or is it the events they live in there life that made them chose the path of crime? Most of the peoples believe that it is impossible that a small child that can be consider as innocent can become a hideous , horrible, terrifying monster such as a serial killer. As for the other they believe that we corrupted the society so much that it is perfectly normal that some of our children grow up to become those monster. Since serial killer, is a subject that interest many people, the psychologies decided to take a look in there mind, and try to find out how those people ever saw the day light? There action created many goal for some of them.
Today, abandonment of a child is considered to be a serious crime in many jurisdictions because it can be considered malum in se (wrong in itself) due to the direct harm to the child, which I agree, child abandonment should be charged as a crime. Most people believe that abandonment typically involves physical abandonment - such as leaving a child at a stranger's doorstep when no one is home, it may also include extreme cases of emotional abandonment, such as when a "work-a-holic" parent offers little or no physical contact or emotional support over long periods of time. There are many laws against child abandonment. The laws against this vary from state to state, however most states do classify this as a felony. Because child abandonment is considered child abuse in some states, certain people may