Friendship and Social Development

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| Friendship and Social Development of Middle Aged Children | By: Marciala Rudd | ------------------------------------------------- Psych 352 ------------------------------------------------- William Block ------------------------------------------------- UMUC What is friendship? How do you distinguish who is your friend and what makes them your friend. There are different definitions of friends and people all have a different opinion on what makes people friends or even best friends. With research and surveys most would agree that friendship between two people have the same interests and hold mutual affection for each other. Most teenagers and young adults can distinguish between a friend and a best friend, but how do middle aged children choose and feel about their friends? Why are they friends and how do they influence them. In this paper we will discuss the positive and negative effects that friendships have on the social development of middle aged children and how middle aged children perceive friendship. Children in middle childhood (ages 6-11) continue to grow in their mental abilities, physical abilities, use of language, self-control, friendships, and social skills. They are usually able to think logically and know the difference between fantasy and reality. They get better at problem-solving, show a longer attention span, become increasingly aware of time and the world around them, and learn to organize and plan. By conducting parent and teacher questionnaires, child interviews and direct observations, investigators generally agree that the conditions marking the friendships of children and adolescents are as follows:(a) mutual regard, and equivalencies in the benefits that develop from the social exchanges occurring between the individuals; (b) enjoying spending time with one another or in simple terms liking one another; and (c)
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