Forgive And Forget

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I come from a big family of seven; I have three older sisters and one younger brother. We all have characteristics and traits that define us. For example, Rosalina is the smart one, Monica is the outgoing one, Lorena is the optimistic one, Jose is the athletic independent one and I am sadly the funny but very stubborn one. I am usually never the first one to say sorry, and if you don’t say sorry then I am ironically sorry to say that I will probably never forgive you. Thankfully my siblings have caught on with this trait about me, and almost always say sorry to me first. However, it was not until this year that I realized my stubborn ways were wrong, and were not letting me builds new relationships in college. I looked outside the box and found out that since I did not forgive any of my “friends” in high school for how much they hurt me my senior year, I wasn’t able to completely be happy when I came to college. I came to Cal Poly, hoping to leave the past behind and start fresh, but that was definitely not the case. I had those little reminders of them, such as my “friends” facebook’s and their numbers in my cell phone constantly reminding me that I was not happy, and that cutting off the people that had hurt me, without forgiving was not going to work. So it was not too long ago that I realized that I had to forgive in order to go on, because one cannot achieve peace without forgiving. It was pouring rain, and I had just finished varsity soccer practice. My house was 40 minutes away from where I had practiced, so I decided to walk to my best friend Ashleigh’s house who lives much closer, and spend the night there instead. Ashleigh and I had been best friends since the fourth grade, and she had lived with my family and I for a year, during some really hard times in her life. She even celebrated Christmas and Thanksgiving with my family. She was another
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