Fighting Fair Vs Fighting Dirty

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1. FIGHTING FAIR vs. FIGHTING DIRTY. A.) I believe there are many differences between fighting fair and fighting dirty. I think one of the biggest differences is that when someone is fighting dirty their objective is to hurt the other person as much as possible. However a fair fighter's objective is to solve whatever problem is causing the fight. Another big difference between the two is that a dirty fighter will use hateful, hurtful words to hurt the other person. Whereas a fair fighter chooses not to hurt the other persons feelings by not crossing that line. B.) I fight with my two sisters as much as any siblings would but I would say that I probably fought the most with my ex boyfriend. Our relationship ended after he had been unfaithful and that's when our fights really became vicious. It would start with him begging for me to take him back and every time I refused, his anger began to grow from there. He started taking shots at my self-esteem by saying that no one else would want to be with me because of x,y,z. C.) I would be lying to you if I said that during this time of my life I didn't fight back. I was constantly fighting back with all of the mistakes he had made and how they way things were now was all his fault. I tried hard to make sure that he felt guilty about what he had done and how it made me feel and I blamed him for our break up. I remember one night when we were fighting he told me I was a stupid bitch, I fired back with whatever name came to mind at that moment. I was so upset at what he was yelling at me and the names he was calling me that I didn't even stop to think about how he was feeling, at that moment my goal was to hurt him as much as he hurt me. D.) I think that during these fights, his goal was to make me feel guilty for leaving him and to make me feel that no one else would want to be with me. He would bring up every tender

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