Feminist Criticism on Judy Brady's "I Want a Wife"

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“Men are universally privileged by gender and women are not.” This excerpt from a writing piece by Daran of feministcritics.org states than women cannot and will not be able to share the same privileges that men are now enjoying. Judy Brady’s essay “I Want a Wife” also acknowledges that this is a possibility through her use of humorous, sarcastic, and occasionally ironic tone of defining what a wife ought to be. Her essay explores the many expectations of married women in a patriarchal society. Judy Brady displayed how wives of a household are tapered into becoming a house mom and a house maid. Within her essay she uses the phrase “I want a wife” numerous times to indicate that there is an ideal wife, one that should strive to be the things that she states in her essay. “I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school.” This fragment of her essay implies that the ideal wife should sacrifice their time and energy for their spouse and children. Through that portion the essay it is evident that Judy Brady clearly interpreted how women are portrayed in the patriarchal society we reside in. Throughout the entire third paragraph she goes on to show how women are expected to behave with their children and in the household. Judy Brady demonstrates how the “perfect” wife caters to her spouse’s every want and need. The very title of this essay shows this and its content goes further into this. Throughout the entirety of the essay she uses the subjective, objective, and possessive case words such as I, me and my. Her excessive usage of these words indicate that it is the wife’s partner that requires to have their wants and needs met, as it is written in that point of view. She states in her essay, “When my wife and I are invited
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