Family's Lack of Communication

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Jessica Lopez Argumentative Essay May 4th, 2011 Family’s Lack of Communication People in the 1950’s believed to be known as the ‘’nuclear family’s’’, living in an era of happiness, love, and comprehension. Today’s modern era, Americans go through family depression ,parents filing for divorce, arguments, conflicts and most of all their children running away because they can’t take all the drama in the house. We believe that we are with a happy, loving family with no problems or issues intersecting our way. But we have the desire to feel loved, understood, and most of all cared for. First of all, communication is part of a healthy family which many of us lack communication skills within the families. For example, in the novel The Gangster we are all Looking for, the author quotes “My father and I would sit at the kitchen table in the evenings and pass the silence back and forth, like a smoke.” In this part of the novel it shows how the father and the daughter lack communication skills. Instead of conversing what is going in their daily lives as in how’s work, or how school is going like a “nuclear family” would act. On the other hand, the television show “Father knows Best” shows how the father is involved and attentive in what is going on with their children’s school work, problems and their relationships. “Father Knows Best” television show demonstrates how effective it is to become well-rounded with positive and negative situations that go around the family and find a resolution instead of having it grow into a dilemma. Also, it demonstrates how loving parents they are who care for their entire kids not just one as many modern parents of today would just have their favorite. In contrast to the T.V. series “Father Knows Best”, in the novel The Gangster We Are All Looking For proves otherwise. In the article, “The Greatest Gift” by Samantha Tengelitsch quotes,

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