Family Reflection Essay

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Personal Response Essay: Family Reflection In my opinion, family is the most important thing anyone could experience in their life. According to the Vanier Institute, a family is defined as any combination of two or more persons who are bound together over time by ties of mutual consent, birth and/or adoption or placement and who, together assume responsibilities for variant combinations of functions. But what does this definition really mean? Does it truly describe what a family is all about? Media has formed the ideal family from what it thinks a family should look like off of traditional (as well as out-dated) beliefs. In most magazine advertisements you'll see "the million dollar family"; a group of Caucasian biologically-related individuals that includes a stay-at-home wife doing housework or cooking in the kitchen, a husband working in an office building, and two children (generally a boy and girl) sitting at the kitchen table completing homework after school. I don't think it's necessary for me to elaborate on the obvious; this is far from the realistic modern family. What this stereotypical ideology of what the family "should be" doesn't show the basics of an actual family, and what I think are most important in such unit; unconditional love, trust and no fear of being yourself. These three things are my favorite, most valued things in my family. Family is meant to be a place where you are more than your mistakes; somewhere forgives and loves you unconditionally. For my family, I suppose we would fit into the million dollar family ideology to a certain extent; I have married opposite-sex parents, an older brother, and an American Cocker Spaniel. However, we do have traits that set us apart from this traditional, media-structured stereotype. For one, you never hear about "homosexuals" when it comes to families. I myself am bi-sexual, which unfortunately
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