Barriers come in many forms, such as when key persons are doing observations and planning. The parents may lack in confidence to give any suggestions or feel that their contribution isn’t worth making at all; they may also not want to get involved in this. However practitioner should let the parents of the child take charge on the suggestion making, instead of the practitioners taking charge. This allows the parents to feel valued and respect being given such an important role, building the parents confidence as their suggestions have be taken into
by Poppy Smith, Peggy Altig, a family counselor, summarizes this familiar struggle, "Learning to be a separate person is the main task of young adulthood, becoming equal rather than being under the parent's dominance." These words would have been extremely useful for Christopher McCandless and his parents to ease the though this difficult process. Billie and Walt McCandless should have allowed Christopher to make his own decisions and go through the process of becoming an adult. If Chris would have had the space to do as he liked being a twenty two year old young adult, his and his parents relationship would have been existent and Chris would not have been driven into the wild. Their action were overly extreme.
This can be damaging to a child because they feel as though one parent is paying the other to keep them. This is usually interpreted negatively. No matter how bad the situation is, if the child is not exposed to the financial distress of the parents, they will not be affected. Children that have no contact with one of their parents, usually suffer the most. Children whose parents divorce will be more likely to be isolated and antisocial than sociable and integrate.
Following this train of thought, the parents might even believe that they are contributing to the promotion of life. When creating their savior child, parents have this in mind and even use it to justify their choice against those who do not believe in children being born to fulfil a purpose. They realize that although most people are against using PGD to create a saviour child, and they too possibly would have been only a few years ago, no one can understand what it is like to have a dying child and not being able to do anything at all to save him or her. When presented with even the slightest opportunity to save one’s child, how could one not take it? This guilt is the driving force behind the parents’ decision to use PGD; they will never be able to live with themselves knowing that they had one chance to save their child and they were too hesitant or scared to take it.
If at any point they failed, they would see this as a big mistake and give up and have a lack of motivation. It can also be argued that working class children do not get the support of their parents, this is because many of the parents believe that they survived without an education, so believe that there children can do the same. Working class families can also lack in support in terms of if the child fails a particular exam, they would not give them positive feed back on how they could improve they would improve. Whereas, it can be argued that higher class families have more motivation and the parents also give the support to the children that is needed. This would have a positive influence on the child’s education as it would give them hope and not give them an opportunity of giving up.
Some are earlier than others and some must be later. In the short story, "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." by 'Neil Millar' shows the most respectful approach of parents to their children because when they talk to their children, they make them understand in a calm voice and not be all tensed which will just confuse the child. Also they make their children understand by not forcing them to do chores, but telling them how responsibility will grow on you later in life, and eventually you will have to learn it at some point of life. They explain to their kids much more in a depth concept which makes their kids want to learn so they will be well prepared for the future. "Parents are guides and leaders to their children, not a nanny."
(1) Working Together to Safeguard Children (DfCSF, 2010) sets out guidelines for organisations and individuals to work together and safeguard children to promote their welfare in accordance with the Children Act 1989 and 2004 (DoH 2010). The mother still does not accept the father’s guilt, even though he was convicted and served sentence for offences to teenage girls. The main cause of concern is, If she doesn’t see his guilt, how can she safeguard her child? The mother is concerned that Jacks father is missing out on him growing up, and is keen for him to have contact more often. Regardless of his crimes, she believes he is a good father.
If the youth see how people are against them, then the youth will fail to see the point of trying their best, or they will think it is pointless to try to succeed. It is almost like nothing is going to change the way the rest of the today’s society portrays them. This would only lead to more problems concerning society and the youth. In one way, it would cause more negative assumptions to be made than positives. Adults are thought of having high expectations for their children and the negative assumptions would have a huge impact on the outcome for the kids.
However, the main competition is for the child’s affection. The competition is intensified due to the child being attached to both the parent and the provider. Another emotion is insecurity. Parents can feel insecure then they perceive that they are not number one in their child’s eyes. Insecurity can also mean fear of abandonment or fear of being replaced.
Any sane parent would probably lie to save their children from severe danger, and there is nothing wrong with that. Also, lies can be merciful in situations where you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings or don’t want to make them feel bad about themselves. Let’s say a friend is starting to become unhealthy and gained a large body mass. You would like to voice your opinion on their lifestyle in hopes of encouraging them to start being