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We have to reclaim our personal power and take responsibility over our life before we can recover our lost self. The quickest way is to reparent ourselves and grow up again. We lost the qualities of unconditional love by the time we were four years old. We expected our mother to provide an effective parenting model for us to learn from, yet she was not able to do this. One would question this and assume it is an inherited quality. Yes, it was inherited alright, but a distorted dysfunctional parenting program was handed down. Unfortunately it does not work or we would not have so many dysfunctional children growing up without the qualities of unconditional love. How can we stop this vicious circle from continuing from generation to generation? It begins with ourselves, for without self-love, we cannot know what true love can be. In loving ourselves, we allow the feeling to generate within us and then we can share it to everyone and everything around us! That which we send out, returns to us in greater measure. If you have not thought about how you feel towards yourself, physically, mentally, and emotionally, or spiritually, begin the journey that changes everything. Begin the journey of unconditional love. How do we begin this journey when we were brought up in a dysfunctional family? 99% of us were from a dysfunctional family who did not pass a functional parenting program on to us. To begin with you have to go back to birth and find out what your mother felt about you as a child. Did she want children and specifically did she want you as a child. The facts are really disappointing when you look at what I have discovered in the last thirty years. More than 95% of the children were rejected after birth due to a dysfunctional parenting program. The conflict starts when the baby begins to ask for recognition and acceptance from mother. She does not know how to show
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