Embracing Otherness, Embracing Myself

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Losing My 'Self' This is a reflection paper in relation to the fifteen minute TEDGlobal (2011) video, Embracing Otherness, Embracing Myself, by Thandie Newton and how it impacted my perspective on certain things. In this video, actor Thandie Newton shares her childhood experience of not being able to fit in the society she lived in, because of her skin color. As she discovered her passion in dancing, it gave her some sort of relaxation while she continued to struggle to find her actual 'self'. Acting in films also helped her as she was able to plug her dysfunctional self into another self, that she gave life to. However, it would only last until the end of the role in the film. Newton briefly discusses that as an infant is not born with a "self", but is given one during his or her early childhood, which becomes the social navigator and keeps changing over time. I was born and brought up in India up until the age of 16, when my parents moved to Canada and that completely changed my life. Besides the language challenge I had to face, there were some deeper challenges that I could not even understand until later in my early 20's. After watching Newton's video last week in class, it did not take me too long to relate most of the things she said to what I had been going through for the past 9 years. A brown skinned girl who did not know English that well, was put into a completely different society where the majority of the people were white skinned and they all spoke English. I was born in a religious family that believed in the Sikh faith, keeping all body hair intact was a part of the belief. Besides the fact that I was dark skinned and wore a turban to school every day, I was clueless about what branded clothes meant for a teenager like my classmates. I was made fun of for wearing non-branded clothes and teased because I did not shave my arms. I would come
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