Family is one of the most vital things in the life of a child. The first “teacher” for a child is their parents. It is important to teach a child social and cultural beliefs and to guide them down a pathway in life. It is safe to say, parenting styles have a large impact on a child’s development. So, why don’t parents figure out one approach that works the best and then stick to it?
Delfinio I. Velasquez Professor: Tami Comstock Eng- 80-32544 3/26/2013 How Autonomy should be used with Parenting Parents want what is best for their kids, but what they think is best for their kids depends on what parents think an ideal adult looks like as a whole. Daniel H. Pink in Drive analyzes how authentic motivation and autonomy are required for children potential to be preserved. Parents should use more autonomy as much as they can to let their children feel that they are controlling their own life. This will increase their motivation in many areas and gain more confidence to achieve better grades in school. Allowing children to be able to think independently and create their own behavior can be an effective way to allow for more autonomy, improving their motivation in many areas and get the confidence to achieve better grades in school.
The fathers usually become the role models for their children . Meanwhile , the mother take full care of their children and teaches them manners of how to live . The both parents are the best teacher for any child . Both parties have their important role as parents , and an ideal child is one that gets the support of both .However , now the question arises that who is better between the two ?Whom do the children love the
Parents are not prefect and everything they say may not be the right thing to do, but pleasing them is the best policy so kids should do it anyway. Twain warns “the best policy in the long run” (291) is to do what your parents say even when it is wrong, because if you do not and get caught, punishment will be waiting for you. That is advice that we have all heard, but find it impossible to follow while growing up. Since most children do not
‘Good parenting is authoritative in which parents keep eyes on their children and try to understand the mindset of their children.’(Sarwar, 2016) Somebody comment authoritative style is utility, but under psychology sense it provides a mutual communication to the kids. In conclusion, there is still room for discussion on how parenting style affect children and what is the effectiveness in teaching
During this stage, it is known that young infants need the attention and care that their parents are supposed to provide to them. The baby will understand whether the world is safe or not. If the child is neglected due to the parent or care giver, then the child will grow up not trusting the world or his or her future relationships. “Success in this stage will lead to a virtue of hope” (McLeod, 2008). Since this is the first stage in Erikson’s psychosocial development, it is crucial that parents give their children care in order for the future stages of development to be fulfilled.
Ultimately the pressure is placed upon the student to determine how they deal with it. The pressure of getting good grades in school can be caused by a variety of different things. Number one cause would have to be parents. Every parent wants their child to be educated and to succeed no matter poor or rich. Children always have the need to satisfy their parents.
Doing this on a daily basis leaves them with reassurance that someone actually cares. Children may be a lot to work with at times but no matter the situation the words “I Love You” should be emphasized. Giving a lot of hugs and kisses may also leave them with that feeling of love. Often, parents tend to force a child to be who they envision them to be order to gain their love. Loving a child unconditionally in spite of the decisions they make in life can be the best way of expressing
Therefore parents are the most important people in their children into a confident, productive, and responsible adult in today’s society. According to divorce Wizard (1997), good solid parenting has less to do with the number of parents in the home and more to do with the quality of parenting. Therefore single parents are to make their families their first priority often this is done by being supportive, patient and putting their children need first but keeping open communication within the family can be very helpful to developing trusting relationship. Commitment and accepting responsibilities are also skills that skills that are necessary as single parents it is very important to acknowledge and accept that there will be difficult situations to deal with such as limit personal time, restricted personal life and
Their disciplinary methods are supportive, rather than punitive. They want their children to be assertive as well as socially responsible, and self-regulated as well as cooperative" (Baumrind, 1991, p. 62). Although most parents use a combination of all four styles of parenting, the basic principles of authoritative parenting are very effective. Parents all have different parenting styles and for those that do not have children, they know how they want to raise their children. Two individuals that have children and two individuals that have not had children were interviewed and asked these four questions; “What makes an effective parent?’ ‘How do you know if you were an effective parent?’ ‘Which of the four parenting styles do you feel is most effective?’ and ‘Which style of parenting were you brought up with and do you wish you would have had been