Divorce In Today's Society

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Divorce in Today’s Society In today’s society, divorce is definitely a commonality. With half of all marriages ending in divorce, it is safe to say that it is no longer a taboo to want to “break up” with your spouse. While the reasons for divorce vary from abuse and adultery, to loss of romantic feelings, I do not think that it indicates a flaw in our social values. If one were to look at each individual divorce, it simply means that a marriage is no longer working for either one or both spouses, which only indicates marital flaws. To then go on to say that because of the sheer quantity of divorces occurring today indicates a flaw in our social values is a huge generality. This generality is not only unfair to those who taken the time to make sure they are ready to get married and have gotten divorces for very legitimate reasons, but it also raises the risk of making divorce difficult for those who plan to get married in the future. Despite its commonality, when most people think of divorce, it still tends to have a negative connotation attached to it. No one wants to get or seeks out a divorce initially when they get married, but sometimes it ends up being the best thing for them to do. Even if someone is not being abused or has not been adulterous, they may find themselves unhappy with their spouse, in which case divorce would offer them a chance to start over and be happy again. To me, this indicates an improvement in our social values, and shows divorce only as a neutral option. To look at divorce as a flaw in our social values is to look at divorce as something that should be eventually eliminated altogether, when in actuality, divorce offers protection and freedom for those who have either experienced abuse, betrayal, or simply just a change of
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