Usually, they are just worried, and they might be angry with themselves more, or just let anger get in front because they are frightened about you. Other times, they may be disappointed in you, and punish you willingly, and other times, they are just plain angry.
Parenting is a tough job. There's no doubt about that. And learning how to discipline your child in a way that will be most effective in teaching him everything he needs to know before he turns 18, can seem like an impossible task. Here are some of the biggest discipline mistakes many parents make and learn what you can do about them.
1. Not Giving the Right Kind of Attention
When kids don’t get enough positive attention, behavioral problems often result. Positive attention reduces attention seeking behaviors such as whining, temper tantrums, and other purposely annoying behaviors. When kids don’t get attention for positive behaviors, such as playing quietly, sitting at the dinner table, and taking turns, they’ll often act out just to get any kind of attention.
Spending 15 minutes per day giving your child your undivided attention can reduce a lot of negative behaviors and can help build a positive relationship. Praise is another great way to give kids positive attention. More formal ways to give positive attention include things such as reward programs or token economy systems.
2. Only Looking at the Short-Term
Another big parenting mistake can be only focusing on the short-term. Good discipline techniques should also focus on the long-term. It is important to remember that your child will need certain skills in order to become a healthy, responsible adult. Therefore, the most effective discipline strategies focus on teaching kids these skills.
For example, some parents give in to kids when their kids are whining in an attempt to make today’s trip to the store more pleasant. However, giving in teaches children that whining and complaining is a good way to get their needs met. Therefore, it is important...