Demonstrative Communication Bcom 275

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Demonstrative Communication Paper April Martinez-Sheffler Business Communications and Critical Thinking - BCOM 275 5/13/13 Bob Hanks Demonstrative Communication Communication is one of the most important aspects of life, because we communicate every day. From the casual conversation with friends, the demanding orders of a parent, the avoidant weather talk with a stranger, or a professional business presentation or interaction, we use the communication process every single day. There are different types of communication such as verbal, nonverbal, written, and visual. There are also different ways that communication can be sent and received such as letters, emails, conversations, or interpreting body language. Demonstrative communication…show more content…
Let’s take the simple example from above for example. “What are you doing?” is a clear cut and simple message, but depending on the tone of voice an body language it can be interpreted different ways. If the sender has a soft calm voice, and opening body language then the receiver will effectively perceives the message as a general inquiry as to what they are doing. However if the sender has a demanding tone and say a hand on their hip, then the receiver will ineffectively perceive the message as negative and may even take offense to the sender for being demanding. The sender could very easily just be trying to make casual conversation, but depending on the nonverbal communication imbedded in the message will determine if the message is effectively or ineffectively received. “We send from 100 to 300 messages a day. These include the message we intend to send; the message we actually send; the messages as the hearer interprets it; the response of the hearer based on what he or she heard; and our own reaction to the exchange of words, meaning, and interpretation. (Effective Communication,…show more content…
This is not the case, an effective message also depends highly on the receiver and how well they actually listen and respond to the message. “We hear only half of what is said to us, understand only half of that, believe only half or that, and remember only half of that.” (Effective Communication, 2004). Wow, the receiver only hears half of what was said to them on a regular basis, this makes it very important for the receiver to be an active listener to ensure proper communication. Also mentioned is that the receiver only understands half of what is being said to them on a regular basis, this makes it important for the receiver to respond to the sender in order to clear up any misunderstanding. Let’s take our example from above again. “What are you doing?” Still a simple communication, but even if the sender delivers the message in proper tone and body language; if the receiver does not listen to the tone or body language the message could be interpreted as negative. Also is the listener does not respond to the sender or responds in a negative tone or body language, the communication can easily be turned from a casual conversation to and argument. The sender and receiver of a communication have an important job to do; that is to be active participants in the communication by listening and responding to each
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