Compare and Contrast Essay: the Commiter vs. the Non Commiter

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There are many types of men in the world, each one displaying a variety of distinguishable characteristics. Women should become aware of these characteristics before considering a prospective mate. The smallest details, from where and how they met, the way he walks and talks, the clothes he wears, the career choices he’s made, the vacation spots he visits, and even the car he drives can offer meaningful clues to whether or not a man will ever settle down with anyone. There are two main types of men in the world: the committer and the non-committer. The committer is serious about finding the right woman. He asks friends and relatives for introductions, he’s usually open to blind dates and avoids the bar scene. On the first date he is polite and will not bring up the subject of money at the restaurant. He takes her to places they can talk one on one. The non-committer just looks for a woman. Apparently there’s no room in his life for THE woman. He, on the other hand, loves the bar scene. He usually finds a million excuses why he can’t find the right woman and uses them to explain why he is still unattached. On a date, he orders trendy food such as sushi to impress his date and he often monopolizes the conversation. He may even take her to places where there is no chance for good conversations such as a club or a party. The committer likes to share in conversation, he asks questions and actually listens to the answers. He is generally open about his past and is willing to share more personal details as time goes on. He’s willing to meet her family and will introduce her to his. The committer also formalizes his plans. He’ll say “lets have dinner on Monday” or “I’ll call you tomorrow afternoon”. The non-committer however, is usually busy with other extracurricular activities to be available. He does the talking while she does the listening. He usually has to
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