Due to the closeness in relationships between love ones they feel as if they know what the other person is thinking or feeling. When in actuality you or the love one should be really listening to what it is that is being said. It seems more convenient to our relationships and lives that we always understand or know exactly what our love one is thinking or wants. Believing this in my opinion is the reason why there is such poor communication among close relationship. My husband and I went to high school together but weren’t really close.
The way they are conversation with each other you can really tell that they have been either trying to tell one another that they want them or have already been intimate. In the article, Unconscious verbal coordination of this sort, dubbed language-style matching by the researchers, signifies not how much two people like each other but how much each is paying attention to what the other says, Ireland and her colleagues propose in an upcoming Psychological Science (http://www.usnews.com/science/articles/2010/11/22/shared-talking-styles-herald-new-and-lasting-romance). I would have to agree and disagree with the article because most of the time when the opposite unconscious verbal coordination would be saying how much one likes the other if it is a man. If it is a woman then the article might be true. The results are based on the opposite sex, so I feel as if one is seeing how much one likes them the other will show how much they like them back.
Also when the partner made weak amends, self-concept clarity and self-respect went down over time as well, damaging mental health. (Luchie et al.) I have to agree with this experiment. I thought that it was a well thought out experiment and I can relate to it well. I like to pride myself by my ability to stay objective in arguments and take in different peoples perceptions, but once in a situation where I had forgave my partner, and my partner did not agree that she was in the wrong.
In this article, we see that the spouses who live together have a communication problem. They thought that they communicate better with each other than they do with strangers. The article presents the results of some research conducted over 24 married couples. The research revealed that people who think that they are so close and take their communication level for granted are making a big mistake (Anonymous, 2011). Often, close friends or couples assume that they understand each other and don’t pay attention to the way they communicate.
After reading this article, I started to pay closer attention to this poor-putting issue and I noticed that everything he points out is entirely true! The thing that I liked the most about this article was his introduction/title. The title “Why Women Putt Worse than Men” is shocking because nobody has really posed the question before and I commend him for it. His article was probably frowned upon at first but if women would just read it, they could start to ask themselves, “Why am I not doing the same things that the guys are doing?”, and it would actually help their putting. His cover page shows a woman in a putting stance with a guy in a lab suit watching her every move and a bunch of gauges surrounding her which implies that they are going to back up that title with some case studies and statistical analyses.
(Par. 6) This is a very interesting finding as most people think that they understand each other better than they actually do. Especially in spousal relationships, we believe that we are on the same wave-length; therefore, to discover how common misunderstandings are because of simple communication barriers is fascinating. These miscommunications may be a large part of the rising divorce rates. When couples feel that they understand each other completely, however, are communicating on different levels, it can be very hard to understand why the communication is failing.
Forgiveness can also be a reason to stay, some people have big hearts and are easy to forgive due to kindness but that does not mean they will necessarily forget, the old bond will never be the seem and asking about the partners whereabouts will no longer be a matter of manners only but to assure herself. In addition to this blind devotion, deep denial can create a desperate hope that the cheater will change. An awfully a lot has been invested in the cheater and the betrayed might think it’s too much to give up on and the best visible solution is forgiveness
Yadé Huntsberry Period 2 8/29/12 Personal Narrative “Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.”-Marilyn Monroe, If you admire someone else, you will try to be like them in every way and forget what you are worth. This quote applies to me because I use to try to be the person other people wanted me to be. After reading this I understand that you should appreciate yourself the way you are, and not try to change yourself for others. I’m very proud of myself for overcoming that and realizing I should be who I want to be not what others want me to be. Because of my Caring, optimistic, and original qualities, I plan to take on college, my career, and everything else life has to offer me, head on, with goals and dreams.
The pronoun ‘ill’ makes the phrase a lot more striking and creates a more sympathy for her. Although the description above may tell many people that she was unlucky and unfortunate, many modern readers would not think so. This is because in the modern age we have introduced ‘equal rights’ which means that all people, regardless of looks should be treated the same. Therefore this is why many readers would not feel sympathetic to Madame Loisel as she is just being treated and born like an average person. Guy de Maupassant may have chosen to write
I will start my analysis on this case with a quote from Gandhi that can also be a motto for this essay: "I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people." I think that thing the two managers didn't do. They didn't get along with people. People that for many years did the same thing, in the same manners with the same people. And much more than this, they liked it, they thought that what they are doing is good for them.