To obtain maturity, obedience and hopefully a new or a closer relationship with Christ is the ultimate goal in Christian counseling. Maturity will enable the client to have a deeper desire to worship and find their purpose in life (Crabb, L. 1977). As a client matures he will be able to assess his situation in a more mature manner and be able to apply the learned skill received in counseling. Crabb discusses two elements of maturity which are long range character growth and immediate obedience in specific situations which will help them to better please God (Crabb, L. 1977). Roger’s theory similarly assumes will need to demonstrate genuineness and true concern toward the client will yield the same results (Kensit, D.
As we can see, Equiano became free with the help of self-reliance which is indispensable for those who also want to become free not only physically but also mentally and spiritually. You need this skill because there are occasions in life where you are alone; no one stands behind you and makes the choice instead of you. Christianity is also an important factor in Equiano’s life. As Martin writes in the critical reading ‘God helps those who help themselves’ (Martin, 257). Belief is a clambering for everyone just like for Equiano.
The beatitudes teach us basic life skills about how we should act towards one another, encouraging us to treat others with respect, compassion, generosity and justice. If we succeed and live the way Jesus showed us to, which is by showing the values of the beatitudes, we will be rewarded in heaven and will live for eternity with God. The statement, “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” basically means standing up for what you believe in, what you know is right and facing the consequences with the choices you decide to take forward. It is about fighting for what is good and what is going to make this world better. If we are able to do this, God will take note of our faithfulness by rewarding us with eternal life with him in heaven.
Think about, treat, and speak to others on a daily basis? When I speak to others I speak with love, God wants us to love one another and make it our most noticeable trait, to bring glory to the Lord, when speaking to others they must get the impression that I am a follower of Christ and that I live for Him. God is happiest when we allow ourselves to Love, follow his commands and spread His word. John
Dr. Crabb shares that the biblical goal of counseling goals should be to help people move over to the path of righteousness (Crabb, 28); and help them move up in their maturity to be like Christ (Crabb, 29). “Moving over” deals with any immediate problems; and “moving up” is about developing character (attitudes, beliefs, purposes) that conforms to Christ (Crabb, 31). People have one basic personal need (that is “personal worth”) that requires two kinds of input for its satisfaction: significance (purpose, importance, adequacy, etc.) and security (love) (Crabb, 63). The counselor’s goal should be to help the person find their significance by helping them understand who they are in Christ (Crabb, 71).
By incorporating God into the equation and helping people understand that sex is a divine given gift from God. People of Faith are able to fully understand the joy that they have to offer their spouse. Penner’s, take sexuality out of the shadows and bring it into the light in a healthy, Faith based guide for all married couples, to find answers to questions they may have not ever had answered. The Gift of Sex Book Review Our sexuality is a gift from God For many in the Church, sex and sexuality is not a topic that is easily or readily discussed. It is glossed over by referencing the” Ten Commandments”.
* Action If I was speaking with a friend, I would most definitely tell them to keep God at the forefront of their lives. I would proceed by asking them how things have worked out on their own without praying on their situation. Often times when we do things without asking for God’s help, we make a mess of things in my opinion. I would encourage them to seek God’s word for the bible has the answers to the problems that we face today. I believe that integrating theology and psychology into practice can be attained and can benefit the client greatly.
At Calvin, I hope to contribute by encouraging others to grow and learn in Christ by maintaining a fellowship that will praise Him in whatever we may do, whether it is preparing for the next exam, simply participating in an intramural game or even how we nourish our bodies. Philippians 2:1-2 reminds us of the importance of being united for Christ: “If therefore there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.” My decision of wanting to attend a Christian school such as Calvin College came from the realization that many of the people I respect went to schools that are grounded in faith.
The essence of the inner understanding we call worship is a being satisfied in God or a cherishing Christ above all things, this accounts for why Romans 12:1-2 depicts all of life as worship. What is the Christian life if God cannot be served by human hands but loves to serve us? We should get up in the morning and fix our hearts on Christ. Once we accept him; he renews our satisfaction through his word. Romans 12:1-2, joins all of life with the worship of God.
Whether or not we choose to pray or have faith in God or wise counsel, we must make a choice and be confident that we will be pleased and have peace with our outcome. This paper will focus on the Bull’s-Eye Approach of spiritual discernment and the reliance and faith in God through prayer, wisdom, and Godly counsel. Keywords: discernment, wisdom, prayer, faith Personal Position There are certain decision-making factors I consider when making career decisions. I am very solid and strong in my faith as a Christian; therefore I find it wise to seek Godly counsel before I make any decisions. Proverbs 11:14 (King James Version) says, “Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.” This scripture indicates that Godly counsel and wisdom help to provide safety in the decisions and choices we make.