Characteristics Of Being A Colored Woman

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Jaquelin Rodriguez Professor Friedman HMXP 102 26 March 2014 Being a Colored Woman A community is defined as a group of people that share a common characteristic. Characteristics can range from passions, interests, professions, skin color to even sex orientation. Whether the individual belongs to the “nerd” community or the Democratic community, community plays a major role in molding the individual’s life. I am part of the Winthrop community, the Christian community, and even the brown-eyed community. The colored women community shapes and directs my everyday life. In today’s society, belonging to the colored women community includes being defined by stereotypes and expected to follow standards society has already created, however it…show more content…
In the article “White Privilege and Male Privilege: A Personal Account of Coming to See Correspondences through Work in Women’s Studies,” Peggy McIntosh, a well-known feminist and anti-racist activist, writes about the privileges whites are granted with. McIntosh explains white privilege as “…unearned assets that I can count on cashing in each day…” (118). As McIntosh includes in her article, a white person can talk with their mouth full, swear, and dress in secondhand clothes without it being attributed to the bad morals, poverty, or the illiteracy of their race. However, if a Mexican made the exact same choices it would be attributed to the Mexican race. Society will just say all Mexicans are rude and poor. Being a colored person means I have to hear the pregnancy speech multiple times because according to society, all Hispanics like to get pregnant and have babies at…show more content…
I am encouraged to stay in the kitchen, cook, clean, and have babies. I recall being told by my own grandmother to learn how to cook and clean because that is what women are for. Hispanic girls are taught from a young age to clean and cook for the family. If the mother is not present to cook for the father then it is the daughter’s responsibility to make sure the father eats. In “Ingroup and Outgroup,” David Myers, a prestigious psychologist and author, makes an interesting statement concerning women: “If we have come to think that the nursery and the kitchen are the natural sphere of a woman…we have done so…children come to think that a cage is the natural sphere of a parrot because they have never seen one anywhere else” (106). Most Hispanic women conform to the idea that this is what they are supposed to do because they have never been told anything else. Higher education is not encouraged in the Mexican culture. Some families still follow traditional customs and do not allow the woman to work. In the work force, women are still earning seventy seven cents for every dollar men earn. It is frustrating to know that men get the better job opportunities and the leadership position just because they have a Y-chromosome. I have even experience limitations in the church. No preaching, leading a service, nor praying for someone because genetics failed to putt in a Y-chromosome. I refuse to

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