Crash Scene Conf Interpersonal Communication Instructor Laura Massengale July 31, 2012 Crash Scene Conflict Having a relationship with anyone is hard. There are all kinds of variables that can come into the equation. And learning how to handle this through interpersonal communication can be difficult but with the right tools and the right desire it is easy to see how we could form a better way of dealing with one another in our interpersonal relationships. According to our text(sole,2011) “When you first form any kind of relationship with another person, the relationship tends to be harmonious. Both people are usually cautious about what they tell each other and how they say it, and they make a conscious effort to present positive information about themselves and to avoid conflict”.
One expected to hold a particular role as either a breadwinner or homemaker. Soon after, institutionalized marriage evolved into companion marriage where we marry based of off love and the want for others. As stated before, companion marriage is all about two people coming together for reasons other than just their needs. This companion marriage started the individualized marriage becoming a part of the marriage transition as well as breaking social norms. Cherlin describes individualized marriage as having the goal of a self-fulfilling status.
Relevance Statement Marriage is a sacred bond which not only involves the couple but also the two families of the bride and the bridegroom respectively. Be it arrange marriage or love marriage, marriage is nothing different for both. Love marriage vs arrange marriage is just a question prevalent in minds of married couples who are not satisfied or are scared to live with an unknown partner for whole life. IV. Preview of Main Points Some of the benefits of arranged marriage are that : (a) It is more stable and successful.
The purpose of my speech is rather simple; to clear some of the most common fallacies that encircle the practice of an arranged marriage. To begin, I think it is essential that we define what an arranged marriage really is. An arranged marriage is one in which families take a leading role however, the parties have the free will and choice to accept or decline the arrangement. Since couples in arranged marriages come together as a result of their extended family and community, they certainly think of their relationship as part of something bigger than just the two of them. Now the problem is the concept of an arranged marriage is often misconstrued with the concept of a forced marriage.
Introduction We find ourselves in relationships and in most cases within marriage where we have lost affect communication with who we are romantically engaged with all together. Women hear their husbands or boyfriends say’ “Who are you anyway?” or “She’s not the same person I married.” And how about the women who complain to their friends about how their men have changed. The truth is that there is not enough self-disclosure in relationships. Self-disclosure is the main ingredient to successful relationships and allowing partners to know who they have and not just what differences they have. Facing what researchers have found self-disclosure and what it looks like, the importance of it and how it’s related to approval in relationships, gender differences and similarities, and where the writer fits into the generalizations regarding gender will determine that sharing personal feelings with others can build and maintain healthy relationships and marriage regardless of differences in gender.
Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Communication Assignment Zakiraha Braxton COM200: Interpersonal Communication Katherine Tracy February 24, 2015 Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Communication Assignment The close relationships sometimes mask poor communication article was a very interesting article to read. It provided valuable insight on the communication issues among individual’s spouses, parent, children and other love ones close to them. As I read through the article I agreed completely with the assumption some have on understanding what the love one is saying or implying and vice versa. When in all they find themselves getting upset when the point is not getting across and sometimes causing conflict to spark between them. Due to the closeness in relationships between love ones they feel as if they know what the other person is thinking or feeling.
Stage 2 – The newly married system The major emotional transition during this phase is through commitment to the new system. Marriage requires that two people renegotiate issues that they or their families defined beforehand. Each will bring their personal ideas, expectations and values that they learned from their families while growing up. This will form the basis of the new family blueprint for the newly married couple. Some couples, who might have shared the same sort of background, could make a conscious decision to great a new family model because they were uncomfortable with the family life they experienced.
If the audience was ever in doubt, they now realise that the outcome must be tragic. The hope and disappointment pattern of the previous scene is repeated but with more far-reaching implications: opportunities constantly arise for the whole problem to be cleared up satisfactorily, but these are always frustrated with ever more serious consequences. However, the opportunities are lost, not as a result of deliberate wickedness, but by accident. Thus, the act is indeed one of interruptions, of explanations tragically delayed. In the court Judge Danforth is trying to conduct an inquiry, but he is constantly distracted from one problem to another by chance.
Cons and Pros of Relationships A relationship is an arrangement between 2 individuals where they compromise to each other, but they are always going to have its pros and cons, especially marriages. In other words, simple things like happiness and freedom are essential parts in a marriage, but not always present. For instance, in the stories “A Wall of Fire Rising” and “The Story of an Hour”, the characters face difficult moments that affect their marriages completely. Moreover, defines the end of each story. Therefore, a relationship is always going to have its pros and cons, and family, happiness, and freedom are the factor that conditions these 2 marriages.
Relationship problems are not just limited to a couple, but they also occur between father and child, brother and sister, and between friends (Dating Women, 2010-2011, p.3). But fear not, that does not necessarily mean that we have to just hopelessly accept relationship problems without the ability to prevent or remedy them. Our ability to prevent, minimize and resolve our relationship problems will ultimately aid us in strengthening the relationship (EZ Love Solutions, 2011, p.1). All relationship problems stem from poor communication skills. Individuals that are unable to express themselves and want their partners to understand it wants a miracle.