If reality is inevitable, and there is nothing one can do to stop it, change it, alter it, or make it happen, one may want to distance them self or even ignore the possibilities of inevitable events. This only hurts people in the long run because not only did the inevitable happen, but the reality of the inevitable and the occurrence can cause people even more doom and burthen rather than them preparing and adapting and accepting inevitable events. There is an idea of shame when one thinks of “burthen….forever on a man’s shoulder.” Shame
It won’t matter where you came from, or on what side of tracks you lived at the end. It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant, even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured? What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built; not what you got, but what you gave. What will matter is not your success, but your significance.
Once these thoughts begin to run through my mind I start to get sweaty palms, an increased heart rate, dry mouth, heat flashes, the usual anxiety responses caused by the “fight or flight” syndrome. I’ve given quite a few speeches in the past, as most everyone has. Due to my anxiety, I am very nervous to take this class, but at the same time I am extremely excited to learn new things and new ways to talk to people. As I said earlier, I’m not sure why I get so nervous when I give my speeches, I always do fine. An example of this would be the quick impromptu speech I had to give about myself the other day.
The most significant reason for not succeeding is that the whole piece feels like a well-considered stream of logic only to attain you-know-what, it doesn’t feel genuine. You've approached my decision as something that needs to be changed, an "issue" to overcome and me as someone who needs to be convinced to do whatever it is that you think is right to do. To be fair, you do have good points about life’s being too short, our not having an eternity on earth, our need to seize the day in our very short lives. But I believe you missed a point: Just because we are not going to live forever does not mean that our only goal or source of joy is to have sex. I don’t ask you to spend 30 thousand years or even 10 for that matter into adoring me hopelessly without any response from me.
Doubt doesnt always contradict certainty, but instead somewhere in between. We have been and always will be afraid of certainty. Generations upon generations have taught is to doubt our decisions and actions and to not trust our minds or heart. People fight for and strive for acceptance and certainty only for doubt to come in and create a feeling of rejection and loneliness. Constant change is certain.
We already knew about his particularly verbose style of communicating from earlier in the interview. But this question alwaysmakes people feel uneasy. It originates from the old-fashioned aversive interview approach of the 1950s and 1960s, designed to make the candidate uncomfortable in order to gauge how he handles pressure. The question still feels like a put down. When you purposefully make a candidate feel embarrassed, she won't forget it, and will most likely never recommend your organization to a friend.
The things you say and the way you say them can affect a person’s life tremendously. Everything you say, whether it’s really sweet or hurtful, it all has an effect on the person. It does not always have to be verbal it can also be through words on paper, in example writing and texting is the same thing just in a different form. In the moment of being mad you have a lot of different things running through your head, and most of the time we don’t think before we speak, we just say how we really feel. Later on down the road, you start thinking about what you said and how you said it, and realize that you made a mistake.
But not knowing the answer to that question doesn't change a thing. That is exactly what stops our odyssey, when we demand answers instantly and refuse to move on, it's like a timeline that with one date all throughout. When we look at how a child develops or evolves into an adult, do they instantly know everything?, the answer is NO. It is the same with us, we may have a question that we don't have an answer to now, but later in our personal journey will acquire. Don't let silly questions stop you odyssey.
But I came to find out that it was not a great idea to start something and not finish, only because it would start to become a habit and your life would always be flip flop, plus it wasn’t a good example. I made up my mind that I had to pull some strength from somewhere and get busy. The first thing that I need to do was to re-examine my goal and how I was going to accomplish them. I had to look at all my resources and let nothing be a block door “when on closes another
Sometimes I don’t talk to them and they keep trying to talk to me it’s like they don’t have a live and they try to make other people worse. Also they are too scared to come talk to me face to face >.<. That is why they irritate me. The final and last thing that irritates me the most are people who take forever to order when am in line. First reason is that I might be hungry.