Be Careful Essay

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Be Careful In life we have people come and go, those who make no difference and those who impact our lives greater than we may ever know. Some of those influential people may be family, friends, or a well known figure whose purpose is to impact lives for a specific purpose. I really don’t know of any famous person who has ever enlightened me to some higher good, and I think family always dictates life and decisions. I never really had anyone outside of my family who I fully trusted and admired. I was always very skeptical, and was taught (more by experience) that people will leave you high and dry. My parents always reminded me to “be careful” and to always have my guard up. Well, people generally say you don’t really learn until you learn for yourself, and I’d say I am physical proof of that statement. All throughout elementary school, junior high and most of high school I floated around between friends and social groups. I never stuck with one group for a majority of my social life. I fluttered around like a social butterfly, making friends with anyone who was nice enough to make conversation. I never was able to determine why my friendships would always self destruct. I thought, I’m putting all I have into this relationship why aren’t they doing the same? Friends would come and go and all that was left was the feeling of abandonment and need to fill the void. I’d cry, every time I lost my “best friend” and my parents would console me. All the while saying the same thing they’d always said before: be careful. I was too young to fully understand those words, though. I thought, I am a nice person I don’t say mean things and I am a good friend. What is there to possibly be careful about? Junior year in high school I started hanging out with a different group of girl friends. These girls weren’t much different than those I had be-friended in the
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