Cultural deprivation means when children are deprived from things what they need. This can include the lack of values and support they get from their parents, which can influence on socialisation skills. It can be argued that due to lack of family structure, social cultural and soft skills pupils are less likely to underachieve. Cultural deprivation is a theory that many working-class children are inadequately socialised and therefore lack the ‘right’ culture appropriate for a successful education. Many people argue that development is vital in the younger years in the child’s life, and the ability to solve problems and apply ideas help in the long-term.
These kids are the ones that are more likely to run away from home or take drugs and this is all going to be blamed onto their parents for not raising them up correctly. Many parents do not discipline their child in the correct manner. They may smack or spank their child or even whip them. This should not be necessary and they as parents should not be going to this extent. They should learn that physically punishing their child does not make the child understand what they have done wrong.
Insecurity can also mean fear of abandonment or fear of being replaced. Parents may also fear that questions or criticism will put their child at a disadvantage in school. However, in most cases, the provider is the secondary attachment for the child. Guilt is another emotion parents sometimes may feel because the parents are not there as much as they should be because of work or other obligations. Parents are often show frustration at not being there and being able to help their children in addition to not getting to see them as much as the teachers do.
Some parents ignore to teach their children when they were young. It cause many children don’t care their behavior and they will get the wrong worldview. I like this book because that is a good advice for children and parents, it can help parents teach their children keep a good behavior when they were young. How to listening to the other people, that is a serious problem for children, especially for parents. Now, more and more children don’t like to listen to the other people.
One begins to understand that his mom is pushing him for his own good and it is what is best for him. The other is pushed too hard and loses her self-confidence. Their mothers just want them to be able to succeed in life, because as children, Amy and Mark’s moms were uneducated and unhappy. In “Kaffir Boy” and “Two Kinds”, children are faced with high expectations to become educated and become something great, which challenge their relationships with their respected mothers. Throughout the stories the children are faced with the expectation to succeed.
The problem arises when parents fail to teach their children the correct way of behaving toward adults. Once threats are made, the parents back down and the teenager feels powerful. Now, the teenager has control over the parent, causing the parent to feel weak and powerless. Moreover, teens lately have been mimicking the disrespectful and disobedient attitude their friends exhibit in school. This can mainly be seen between a student and a teacher, another adult, or just a simple student with student.
Brittiany Garcia English 101 8:00am Summary Review of “Correcting the Mistakes of Parenting” In his article “Correcting the Mistakes of Parenting” Ruben Navarrette Jr., discusses how today’s parents are choosing to raise their children or more appropriately the mistakes that they are making while doing so. He begins his article by stating that buying your children everything will not guarantee your child’s respect. It’s what he goes on to say where things get interesting. In a survey where both Adults and children were surveyed the findings reveal that many of today’s children do not intend to raise their own children the same way that they were raised. They plan to be tougher with their own children as well as a lot less generous.
On the other hand there are parents that are very protective over their children. They don`t trust their children to do things on their own and help them too much. Those children can fall behind in the development of their motor skills. Simple tasks as getting
Obedience means that the children do what they are told to do. Authoritarian Parents always use this type of parenting which consists of 3 characteristics: having strict rules and expectations, demanding but not responsive, utilizing punishments with little explanation. However, today’ society is changing and become more open and more competitive, we hope our next generation to have all-round development. An obedient parenting is no longer suitable to adopt, even worse, it can hinder children’s personal development and reach to other disadvantages. In my opinion, obedient to parents is not a must-follow rule nowadays.
Ignorance, mentioned by the parents, is an indication of parents’ judgement based on their experience, not their true understanding of such questions. Parents are not the best teachers because they judge things with experience. They may not convey things in logical and theoretical ways. Difficulty to explain questions may lead to inability to elaborate on such questions. Most parents want their children to develop both physically and morally.