Overall, I believe that Tamela’s self-injury was instrumental aggression. She saw the cutting as a way to express her pain and relieve the psychological trauma in her mind. It was not simply anger that fueled her behavior, but a deep-rooted pain and unbearable weight of feeling inadequate and worthless. Tamela explained, “When I feel ashamed, I do it on my pubic
One reason is that we always think that these things are not worthy to judge, another reason is that we usually do the same thing as them and we don’t like to face the dark side of ourselves. However, when we experience a lot of unfair treatment or pressure, we may become to be depressive and like to complaint or even curse, which is the hotbed for extremity and evil. From now on, the gate of unscrupulous is opening, and our happiness index is sharp declining and is hard to get a favorable
We all have enemies. However, it is the enemy that thrives within us that is the most powerful. Self-defeat and self-denial. Many people tend to give up before they even try, that or they assume they will fail. While others tend to hate themselves and inflict pain on their own bodies, until they feel as though they punished themselves enough.
Depression is when you are experiencing one of those feelings that won’t go away. Having this feeling will affect your day to day life, school, work, sleep, social life etc. Most commonly people can’t control their negative thoughts, which makes there depression get even worse as they get even more negative thoughts. Loss of interest is another symptom to depression, in most situations the person with depression won’t notice this but their friends/family will. There is also a large amount of self-loathing this is when you’re feeling worthless or guilty and are also harshly criticizing your mistake, choices or fault.
Shunning someone for his or her wrong actions is hypocrisy because the person doing the shunning isn’t doing anything right either. They are both wrong. People shun other people to make themselves feel superior to the offending party. To lift themselves up and glorify themselves, basically shunning occurs because people are selfish by nature. It’s also because people like to spent their time on judging someone on how they dress or who they hang out with.
Human beings are prone to judge and assess each other and even ourselves. Judgement has a negative effect not only on the victim but also you. Some of the horrible affects that judgement has is anxiety, anger and torment which all lead to high blood pressure and heart problems. In the worst case scenario judgement could lead to suicide. By saying this, judgement prevents you from living a healthy lifestyle that is full of joy, happiness and peace (Thaik, 2013).
Not only are they scorned and hated by society, but also most scorn and hate themselves even if they do not show it every day. Similarly to Dante’s time, even in today’s society gluttony is considered to be a wrongdoing by others. In our day, lust is not seen as corrupt as it was in Dante’s time. A large part of the community does not consider it immoral to have sexual relationships with one or more partner and yet many people are not finding happiness, they are satisfying lust and perhaps finding that that is not enough. They drift from one relationship to another constantly searching for who knows what.
People also tell me that I have a mental problem and that could be one of the reason I can’t get a job. I have mix emotions I can get real mad and stressed out that I will think of bad things to do to myself just to release the stress. I know it’s not good but anger problems runs in my family but I try to control it sometimes it work and other times it don’t. I am drug free I don’t even be around it any more. I am struggling trying to take care of my family without losing my family.
Some negative attributes ascribed to a Six that honestly reflect me are as follows: critical of self when expectations are not met, procrastinating due to fear of failure, worry about being taking advantage of, and always scanning for danger. All of these negative attributes basically fall under the insecurity blanket if you will, but at the same time and what totally sold me on the results of the Enneagram, was that the complete opposite can also be said about a Type Six. They are weak and strong, aggressive and
Whither it is love or hate letting pure emotion rule over you can cause serious problems. Many times letting emotion rule over are actions causes us to overlook a clear reality instead images of a better life or situation make us see things differently. The first example of how emotions negatively affect people