Most events that occurred have made me the strong, confidant person I am today. Some meaningful memories that have occurred happened when I was still growing up. The most wonderful memories happened with my family. Without the support of my family my life would not have been as great as it is now. I remember my dad telling me that “life is what you make it to be and with heart and confidence you can be just about anything you want to be.” Those words always run through my head knowing that anything is possible if you just take the time and try to make it possible.
Their support comes in all difference aspects, from mental support to physical support. My family puts confidence into everything that I do, believing that I will make the best choices. This mental support is the foundation behind every success. Another important support is physical support. Any financial problem that is needed to be solved, my family is always the first to support me.
Family values are traditions of sort. Each generation takes what they learned from their parents, shapes and molds it into what they would like to instill in their own children. Although every family is different we can consider respect, honesty, forgiveness, and responsibility as the core values. I grew up in a very structured house. What we did and how we acted was by the family values code if you will.
As it may be difficult to discover our true identity, it jeopardises our ability to find a sense of belonging, because we are weary from our previous unpleasant experiences. Our closest connection ever since we were children, would be our parents, their teachings, traditions and values ultimately forms our beliefs when we’re still developing and learning. During this period of time, we strive to live by our parents’ rules and morals, and that’s not only because we respect them, but we’re still trying to find our own identity. Over the time as we grow up, as we immerse ourselves with different kinds of people during our time in high school, and thus we start to gain experience through different kinds of relationships. On this journey towards adulthood, to find our identity we could start to value different things in our lives as opposed to what we were taught by our parents.
Nobody can take away your level of effort. Another core belief that I have is to always look at the best in things no matter what. This belief helps a ton when you think that things aren't going your way. I got this belief from my parents also. My parents really believed in shaping me into a good person when i was younger.
Some of the values I live my life by are respect, honesty, being non-judgemental, hard working and grateful. I always try to treat people the way that I would like to be treated. These values were instilled in me by my parents, especially my mother. Alfred Adler claims that the first six years of life are the most important influence on what kind of adult the individual will become. I relate to his theory because I
The traits I have chosen for my personal character are applicable to me because I have always looked upon the characteristics of a successful person and I believe my personal character possesses the traits. I am the oldest of my four siblings and it is necessary for me to be a role model and pave the path for each of them. My parents must depend on me to be responsible to look over them at times. I show my siblings my self-confidence so they can take that and overcome any challenges they might face and not to fear them. When they struggle on homework I’m there to navigate them through it until they are capable of doing it on their own.
Now my only struggle is to help and provide for my family and make them proud. My parents are getting older and so am I, I know soon I will have to leave the nest and eventually go build my own so I try to enjoy them as much as I can because I know this is part of the cycle of life. I will always have them in my mind and value the things they did for me and thought me. My family will always come first and I know if they ever needed me I will be there for them the same way they were there for me all my life. I love them to death and I know the strengths and knowledge they gave me will forever be in
With my family’s help and patience I will succeed in doing so. I can’t wait until this day. My kids will no longer miss any family events and I will be able to raise my kids and show them how to work hard and to never give up on anything, no matter how hard things
My warm and (according to virtual child) strict parenting help mold Zara into I believe would be the best example of a child any parent would want. Being the parent my parents were helped me raise such a child. From birth Zara and I have had a wonderful relationship, she always preferred me to my partner and it never change. It only grew