Remember that you have a family to come home to and that work shouldn’t come first over your family. In today’s society people tend to find it difficult to balance between family life and work. First and foremost your spouse should be number one in your life, but that doesn’t mean that you forget to spend that quality time with your children either. Once kids are in the picture it can be very easy to forget that spending time with your spouse is still a priority in your marriage. Not only can it become difficult to make sure and have that quality time with the spouse, but it is also difficult to balance time with the grandparents as well.
Some men and women refuse to marry from their relatives, whether cousins or other relative due to the prevalence of family problems that occur between couples, which makes some of them intend to divorce, but stands in front of family constraints such as their parents get angry to a son while intending to divorce his girl relative for this reason what made some young men and women are reluctant to marry relatives Getting married from out family, will be more interesting as it leads to figure new relations between the two different families which be beneficial for community to be stronger and closer when they know their tradotions very well. Being married from out of family changes people’s lifestyles and habits in ways that are personally and socially beneficial The family, centered on marriage, is the basic unit of society. Healthy marriages and families are the foundation of thriving communities. When marriages break down, communities suffer and the role of government tends to expand. for several reasons most of them stationed in cousins marrage as it sesntive marriage which you can not make your decision as you constrained by the two family fearing from the problem that may occuer between them so it will be more confusing than married from outside the family which be more easer to deal with your husband without thinking about the problem that may occur as you not constrained by others.
This is because the family estate will pass to his brother. He is attracted to Elizabeth but she is not wealthy enough for him. Another benefit of marrying besides that of giving financial security or independence from their families for women
The Imbalance of Work and Family Many times in modern society working individuals find it difficult to balance family time and work. One will always take time from the other and finding a balance between the two is rare. This is shown in “Contents of The Dead Man’s Pocket” by Jack Finney, where Tom Benecke choses to work instead of going to the theatre with his wife, and he ends up regretting this choice greatly. The theme of this story is that family time is much more important than work and family must be held before work, and a similar theme may be seen in “Double Daddy” by Penny Parker, and “The Child’s View of Working Parents” by Cora Daniels and Ellen Galinsky. First of all, the theme is shown as the story progresses and Tom Benecke’s character develops.
One school of thought argues that marriage comes with some amount of responsibility and ability to tolerate one another. This explains why many people fall in love and they know it is a great feeling but they fear to quickly get married because they know that marriage has the ability to make or unmake them. People have different social statuses, academic levels, religious beliefs, cultural backgrounds or political opinions that define their life style and attitude towards one another yet these things are nonetheless the underlying factors for loving and marrying (except in minor cases). It becomes a big challenge for people to tolerate one another especially within the wake of these opposing views when they begin to manifest in their marital life. The adjustment stage of husbands and wives is very difficult.
Finally, marriages make the partners bond harder to break. Marriage brings a family structure, and nothing is more important than family. On the other hand, cohabitation has limited privileges. It allows partners to have unstructured ways. For example, if your partner gets sick, you have no say so in what decision is made.
Not all emotional reasons are romantic , however . Some people may choose to get married because of fear that they will always be alone or that they will not find someone else to share their life with . Some people may also get married out of anger , either to spite their parents or another individual with whom they 've had a relationship . Getting married can be very practical for financial reasons . A married couple can take advantage of tax breaks associated with marriage , and the legal commitment of a marriage ensures financial security for providing for children .
They have arranged marriages rather than marrying freely to whom you ever you desire. Marriage and tradition play a huge role in the short story “Marriage Is a Private Affair” by Chinua Achebe, where we have the main character Nnaemeka does not follow his tradition and therefore is an outcast in his own tribe. Marriage and tradition bump heads throughout the story which causes pain, rejection, and neglect. When Nnaemeka tells his father that he is going to get married his father is in total disbelief and does not agree with his son’s choice. Nnaemeka marries out of tradition, where the father chooses who he wants his son to marry.
It is done because, in many cases it was seen that, after marriage the family of groom becomes more greedy for money and the other worth-full things from the bride's family. After a certain period of time, the endless physical and mental harassment on that bride makes the place hell for her to survive where she came with a dream to be a part of a happy family with her husband and offspring. Dark side of this custom: The crime of physical and mental harassment on a new bride was happened because of dowry, even sometimes this dowry custom became a business for a number of families with the eligible grooms until this dowry custom is banned by law. That's the dark part of dowry, lets check out the concept, what for the dowry custom begins. What was the psychology and logic behind this custom?
Married people can’t afford to be selfish and inconsiderate anymore. That will make them feel uncomfortable wanting to do something they like. Thereby they will get more pressure of responsibilities; always worrying about getting fired at work; can’t afford to change their job because of consideration about the stability of the next job. Besides, married people have to give up so much