A Person's Sense of Identity Is Always Changing in Response to Their Life Experiences

1122 Words5 Pages
A person’s sense of identity is always changing in response to their life experiences. I would like to think that life experiences play a role in shaping ones sense of identity but your sense of identity does not always change in response to life experiences. Life experiences do not define who we are, they help us judge, learn and decide what sort of person we want to become. We become proactive rather than reactive with life experiences, we develop a means of creating our own life experiences. At first we develop ourselves through the experiences we go through but as we grow we do things that will result in instances that happen because of our identity. For some this is not the case, and as such my best friend has suffered at the reigns of depression. Her circumstance is difficult and very unfair. A couple of years ago she moved in next door and has ended up catching the same bus as me to the train station, which is a reasonable journey time wise. Her Dad and mine have become quite good friends and in turn she has become a family friend for a long time. So I’ve spent quite a long time with her, just hanging out at each other’s house after school and on weekends. This has meant that I’ve been able to see how she’s progressed through the years. Around when I was 15, or in fact the first time I met her she appeared very sad, not only through the way she spoke but her appearance. The very first time she told me about her depression, I was taken aback, not because she told me, but the way she described it; “as a constant negative presence in her brain, a demon.” In Anthony Fabian’s movie, “Skin”, Sandra Laing is born into a world of Apartheid and due to a throwback gene, she has black skin when both her parents are white. She is thrown into a situation at which she has no control of. Things began to turn upside down throughout her later teen years. She made it

More about A Person's Sense of Identity Is Always Changing in Response to Their Life Experiences

Open Document