Whenever arguing with a higher status male your inferiority complex would cause you to panic. You would feel uncomfortable in the rarely entered territory of the alpha male, in which one stands up for himself and refuses to be made to feel inferior by anyone. As a result your voice would raise, your speech would quicken and you would begin to make quick and erratic movements. Even as you were defending yourself in an heroic fashion your omega male traits would show themselves. Have you ever heard of an omega male?
This results in Dimmesdale having to hide his guilt when he is out in public, which in return slowly destroys his soul because he usually is not put into a position where he must lie. If Dimmesdale is to confess his sin he will no longer have to hide it, just like Hester which will result in the mending of his body and soul. Secondly, since Dimmesdale is seen as such a pure and holy man it is extremely difficult for him to confess. When Dimmesdale has to hide his guilt he turns into a, “poor, miserable man! What right had infirmity like his to burden it with crime?
This portrays Parris as having completely lost control as the word “overcome” implies that he has been beaten by whatever issue there is. Parris being presented as sobbing is another powerful image as it implies that he desperate. This is also a stark contrast to our anticipations because we would believe that he would be confident and contained, whereas, this behaviour presents him as having an emotional breakdown and as though he cannot remain in control of himself. This also creates tension as after seeing his behaviour we start to believe that this issue is extremely serious and we begin to wonder if the head of authority cannot resolve the issue then who can. Miller continues to present Parris as the antithesis to our expectations
2) Remove them. 3) Replace misbeliefs with the truth. It is important to know and believe the truths that God has revealed in scripture. According to Backus, a “misbelief” is a lie that you tell yourself. “Misbeliefs are the direct cause of emotional turmoil, maladaptive behavior and most so-called ‘mental illness.’ Misbeliefs are the cause of the destructive behavior people persist in engaging in even when they are fully aware that it is harmful to them” (p. 17).
People may be scared to do something different because they don't know what the outcome will be; they are scared to take a chance or a risk. People may resist change because of lack of control or reward. My husband is the kind of person who is resistant to change because of lack of control. He likes to have control over things in his life and if something happens out of his control he has a hard time handling it at first. If there is a lack of reward then people may resist.
He simply was not strong enough to say no because he believed that this would show weakness inside of him. Weakness leads to failure, and Okonkwo simply cannot fail. He tries to accuse Obierika in order to cover up for his own feelings. This quote adds to Okonkwo’s character by inducing even more of the idea of his fear for failure and weakness. He does anything possible to cover up his weaknesses and will never give in to them.
People are often afraid of failure, and when someone believes that you can not do something, it motivates you to not fail, using the fear as fuel for success. Another example is people who are afraid of public speaking. When one is afraid of speaking in front of others, they often use the fear as a motivation to make their speech good, so that they don’t have to worry about having a bad speech as well as speaking in front of others. A comfort zone for people afraid of public speaking or performing would be picturing the crowd in their underwear. Many people are also afraid of loneliness.
In the rant called “The Smart Gap,” Eric Maisel explains his personal opinion on brain power of individuals. Grit, however, isn’t something that he believes will help people find success. Although some may not agree with what was stated, Maisel brings up many persuaded key points to help get his point across. Throughout Eric Maisel’s rant, many key points are brought up. First, he explains that we will experience emotional pain when we recognize that the work we would love to do might just be unavailable enough to make us doubt that we can proceed.
These are only some behaviors that you may see in people to pinpoint their growing harshly judged flaws. Self-doubting and constantly apologizing for redundant events can also be behaviors that point towards an insecure person. Being indecisive or putting yourself down are also behaviors of insecurity. Some people have nervous laughs to expresses there uncomfortableness, insecure people can also be very self-sacrificing, always giving up there spot by putting others before themselves. Insecurities can turn people into dependable persons, who confide in their partners for reassurance of the relationship constantly, insecure people also have a hard time asking for favors or for help, probably too shy to ask for any help that they might
But do not forget that it should be both. The prince should make himself feared in such a way that it cannot get love, he escapes hatred. In fact, it is better to be loved and feared, and it cannot be loved, that his subjects so afraid of him, it is imperative that they escape the hate: the prince must remain within the certain limits (respect the private property of citizens and their wives) especially not to be hated, which would destroy his authority even faster. But, these issues