In creating the ecomap I learned each system has its own purpose and function in my life. The most significant system was family, which for me is comprised of two parents and four siblings. I found in the family system we support each other emotionally and physically, meeting the needs of individual members and the family as a whole. Other systems such as extended family, friends, and boyfriend also offer and receive support, therefore being strong systems. I feel as if church and choir systems both provide a spiritual being that directs me in personal beliefs and values.
Values My personal values provide a reference for what is good, beneficial, useful, important and constructive to my family. Some values generate my behavior and helps me with family problems or issues and also with how I wish to raise my children today. Over time, I have found it to be very important in my day-to-day life. It helps me lay a foundation down of tradition, custom and family values. Values are what you want and need to achieve the goals you set for yourself and your family.
This attachment is helped in the early months by a number of thing's including. Skin contact* Smell* Talking and listening or carer's voice's * Feeding* Batheing* Play* Eye to eye contact Social and emotion behavoreral developmentThis area of development is about learning to live with others in both our family and society and how young people feel about them self's and relate to other's. They will need to learn how to have confidence and become independent of adult's as they grow older. Primary socailisation takes place with in the family, in the first year in a child's life. This
God’s Word makes it very clear (Psalm 127:3) that children are a gift and blessing from Him. With each gift comes the responsibility of stewardship and our duty to be found faithful (1 Corinthians 4:2). This blessing is enhanced when parents use Scripture and the Holy Spirit’s guidance to provide strength, direction, and correction for their children (Proverbs 29:17). Most researchers believe that parent discipline practices are absolutely vital in the socialization and development of children. (Pinderhughes, Dodge, Bates, Pettit, and Zelli, 2000).
Family values are traditions of sort. Each generation takes what they learned from their parents, shapes and molds it into what they would like to instill in their own children. Although every family is different we can consider respect, honesty, forgiveness, and responsibility as the core values. I grew up in a very structured house. What we did and how we acted was by the family values code if you will.
As far as the home health business I was brought up around I contribute my need to help others, and my sense of compassion to my parents instilling these values in me at a young age. I am not certain whether Nature or Nurture take precedence over my development. I simply feel that each play a significant role in my life, and furthermore I feel that these factors continue to impact who I am. As I continue to mature I continue to rely on both Nature and Nurture to assist in becoming who I want to be. I realize that I am careful making choices based on my genetic background, and equally consider knowledge I have gained from society when making decisions.
I believe that those values lead me to pursue my goals. I hope one day, in the near future I would be able to pay my parents back for helping me out when I needed them the most. Informal values are so important in life that they help you define social groups. For example; I found somebody with the same values as mine and married him because I believe we both have the same dreams in seeking to reach the same type of goals. Now, I apply those values to my life and even more so as a mother and wife.
The nurture part of it is that we are who we are because of the way that we are raised and the type of environment we are raised in. Also, there are some people that think that it is both Nature and Nurture that make you who you are, meaning it is a mix of both what you are born with and the traits you get from the environment you grow up in. Scientist have known for years that your hair color, eye color, body size, etc. Are determined by what you inherit from your parents. They can answer those questions, but why can’t they come up with an answer for Nature vs. Nurture?
I think this is the most important character you can have because it will push you through life and help you become a more reliable and better person. This belief has come from a lot of adult figures in my life but mostly my dad. My dad is always telling me that even if the situation is as bad as it can get you should still always
Some of the values I live my life by are respect, honesty, being non-judgemental, hard working and grateful. I always try to treat people the way that I would like to be treated. These values were instilled in me by my parents, especially my mother. Alfred Adler claims that the first six years of life are the most important influence on what kind of adult the individual will become. I relate to his theory because I