The Hurried Child

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David Elkins book, The Hurried Child, details the numerous ways in which parents, schools, the media and technologies are hurrying our children; pressured to preform and behave as adults. He details the many children who are forced to abandon their childhoods—the innocent time of their lives, and become mature, all too quickly for their own good. His book talks about the importance of all children to experience the four stages of adolescence. The four stages include “sensorimotor” (birth to two years), the “preoperational”(two to six), the “concrete operational” (six to ten) and the “formal operational”(eleven and twelve). The concrete operational period is the most mentioned in the book. This is when a child learns the difference between manipulations of things versus symbols. The stresses of growing up to fast often result in troublesome behavior during adolescence. Children who experience repeated school failure are likely to acquire the orientation of learned helplessness (Elkind.2001. p.131). Therefore, this hurrying atmosphere is increasing hindering our children by not allowing them to experience childhood. Parents are hurrying their children by insisting they acquire early academic skills. Parents unwittingly also hurry their children by expecting kids behave as adults when dealing with stressful situations such as divorce, or parents who have bad coping skills, living in poverty, moving, or changing schools. Elkind brings the attention to the way schools have changed kindergarten to the new first grade where they are being tested, taught with workbooks, given homework, and take home a report card. Testing in school has become more pervasive and in many places has become the basis for graduation (Elkind, p.xxi). These types of pressures on schools have forced the elimination of many extra-curricular activity and clubs; to allow for more study time.
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