When I Am Dead My Dearest

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When I Am Dead My Dearest by Christina Georgina Rossetti (1830-1894) When I am dead, my dearest, Sing no sad songs for me; Plant thou no roses at my head, Nor shady cypress tree: Be the green grass above me With showers and dewdrops wet; And if thou wilt, remember, And if thou wilt, forget. I shall not see the shadows, I shall not feel the rain; I shall not hear the nightingale Sing on, as if in pain: And dreaming through the twilight That doth not rise nor set, Haply I may remember, And haply may forget. I am dead. Nothing you do can change this. The world as I once knew it is no more. The poem suggests that nobody can escape the grip of the death. It reflects the melancholy that the poet is feeling. By questioning the traditional mourning ritual, the poet condemns the showing of behavior and suggests more sincere ways to express sadness. In the first stanza of the poem the poet addresses her dearest one and asks him not to mourn her in death. Celebrate life without her and go on amongst the living. Either forget or remember, whichever they find more comfort with, after I am gone. “Plant thou no roses at my head, “Nor shady cypress tree.” Usually, we find that after death, people express their grief by singing sad songs and by planting roses or a cypress tree. The poet thinks people are showing off . They are doing it more for themselves than for her. She does not want roses planted as they are a symbol of love. There is no more love to be expressed now that she is gone. Just as a cypress tree is a symbol of mourning, there is no reason to prolong the sadness of her passing. She is gone now, she can no longer hear the sad song of the nightingale. “Be the green grass above me, With showers and dewdrops wet”. She would rather have them go on living life. Like the
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