If you've lost someone, you might be angry with the person involved in the death, whether it's a careless driver or a competent doctor. You might even become angry with yourself for not finding a way to prevent it. You might experience a feeling of being singled out and question why the loss happened to you. You might begin bargaining as a gateway to depression and desperation. The pain is felt so acutely that you make a deal with a higher power or yourself to be a better person, try harder, or complete some other task in order for the loss or the pain of loss to dissolve.
Some people believe with superior and disrespect towards people. People that behave this way normally missing trust, belief, or faith in themselves. They repeatedly have uncertainty about their value of life. Individuals that battle this disorder take chance in endangering themselves to lack of success. They are quick to put the blame on others for their failure instead of taking control for their actions (Kassin, Fein, & Markus, 2013).
Oana Purcar English 1102 Professor Lockaby October 9th, 2013 Revenge and Transformation Sometimes revenge goes hand in hand with transformation. How? A person who wants to get revenge on someone can be transformed in this process; out of hurt, anger, and by holding grudges, they can slowly turn into something they never wanted to be. Sometimes I think only forgiveness can set us truly free, and that is a win-win situation even though sometimes we can’t view it like that because in that moment we are caught up in our own anger and the natural thing that comes to mind is to pay back to the person who hurt us. When we want to revenge it is most likely that we will end up transformed and bitter.
Humans can respond to this guilt from mistakes in different ways. Sometimes, we accept our mistakes and can carry on with our lives. Other times, we slip into a vicious cycle of denial, destroying our conscience, while other times,
One way to overcome this feeling of helplessness when they feel wronged is to get “even”. They may not have control over what the other person said or did to them but they have a feeling of control in the midst of their vengeful act, Another reason a person may do a violent vengeful act is to get attention when he feels disregarded or treated insignificantly. Many of these acts occur between people who know each other very well including intimate partners. The biggest theme throughout the story was revenge.
And this bad thing leads him to death finally. Willa Cather shows that the wrong way causes a bad ending. Her idea is important to all people, because many people try to get their future in many different ways, but they only pursuing their desire, not think about the consequences. Through this story, I learned that there is no simple way, only the effort is best way to accomplish my
What would you do to protect the ones you love? Would you be willing to give up your beauty, health, or even mental being at the price of a lie? But what if in turn, it ended up hurting them in the worst of ways? Usually, people want to save the ones they love from being upset, even if it means not telling the truth. But throughout life, people are affected from these lies and pay for them in a way that makes us wonder if it was all really worth it.
This is because if the information was not obtained then many people would have died, and this would cause great suffering for the family and friends of the deceased. Therefore this would decease overall happiness and increase pain, and by not torturing the suspect for the information
The client might decide, under certain circumstances, to forgive but not reconcile. The work phase then commences, in which the client reframes who the offender is, seeing him or her certainly as wrong for the hurtful actions inflicted but also perhaps as vulnerable or scared. The key to reframing is to begin seeing the injurer as a person, not because of what happened but in spite of it. Affective exercises focused on empathy and related emotions follow. The discovery phase centers on what has been learned from the hurtful experience and the forgiveness process.
The sin, which is exposed and confessed, frees the sinner from torturing inside under his conscience, but the sin, which is concealed and hidden, tends to deteriorate the sinner's bodily condition and cause death. Dimmesdale’s sin causes them to worry continually about their sins being discovered. This constant anxiety leads to the deterioration of both spiritual and physical health. For these reasons altogether, it is safe to say that concealed sin takes a greater toll on Arthur