What Defines a Family in Our Modern World

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What defines a family in our modern world? Traditionally it was comprised of blood relatives who often lived together and took care of one another, two or three generations living under the same roof. In the latter part of the twentieth century the family unit started to change. In today’s modern world with its unprecedented mixing of cultures, family units can be made up of unrelated people who sometimes don’t even share the same ethnicity or cultural background. In “Who’s Irish” the traditional roles, such as child, parent, grandparent, and wife are modified to reflect society’s modern, changing dynamic, but tensions associated with cultural/racial discrimination, generational differences, and women’s changing roles come to the surface. Cultural/racial discrimination is seen both obviously and subtly in this short story. The story is narrated by an unnamed older Chinese woman, who emigrated from China many years before the story takes place. She has brought many of her cultural beliefs with her and looks down upon some of the cultural norms that are present in American society. Her daughter, Nattie, marries into an Irish-American family, the Shea’s. On the surface they seem very accepting of Nattie and her mother, but they exhibit some underlying cultural/racial intolerance that is insensitive and which they may not even be aware of. The narrator is a strong, independent woman who has worked hard her whole life. She isn’t afraid of anyone and she doesn’t mince her words. She is not pleased that Nattie has married outside of their Chinese culture, and makes numerous derogatory comments about the Irish, she even stereotypes all Irish as plain boiled (Jen, Who’s Irish). In the case of the Shea’s the narrator feels that not only is their food plain, but so are their ideas, and their goals. It is unlikely that anything could change her view of them, since

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