This type of love tends to occur in those with low self-esteem and those who gain confidence in pleasing their love interest. Mania and agape love are similar in that they both have the ability to develop into a very intense and unhealthy relationship for both parties. In both instances the parties involved have the ability to lose their sense of reality. The styles of love that have been most prevalent in my life are logical love called pragma, and friendship love called storge or philia. A love that develops from a friendship usually prevents a lot of disappointments because you already know a lot about that person.
They find “warmth” in an alternate reality, called interests. Being nerdy about these interests is esteemed rather than frowned upon. Society tosses them aside, they do not want nerds to be seen or heard, and that’s fine because nerds have an entirely different world. A world called
He only describes how he thinks she is beautiful and how he has physical attraction towards her. He doesn’t seem to have any real feelings toward her, but he does appear to just want her to help him pass the time and stay entertained. Once again Meursault is detached. -The only two points
People encounter different situations in their lives; however, they do have one similarity. No matter what type of situation it is, it is necessary that we know what we are doing and that we make the right choice. In many cases, people tend to have fun at the moment and not consider the consequences, which often cause them to regret after realizing what they have done. This is quite common among people because there is this part in human minds called Id tat tends to seek for pleasure. However, there is also another part called Ego that works contrary to what the Id does.
An activity done by extrinsic motivation may not be done because a person enjoys it, it’s often done because they want the end outcome. Working out is a great example, the result of looking better is extrinsic motivation, and the working out is not done because they like how they feel when they workout. Amotivation is the lack of motivation or drive to do something (McDavid, Cox, & Amorose, 2012). Amotivation is when someone does like doing something and feels there is no need to do that
An important aspect of being single is being “free” to do what they what, when they want. People can spend their money without consulting a partner or thinking about the financial needs of children and many people prefer to be single by choice because of this reason. Liberal thinking tends to accept having a partner does not constitute that we have to partake in marriage, but instead collect multiple partners and select who is the right one for them. Some people have marriage in the back of their minds, but if they enjoy being single, marriage will not be a part of their immediate future
This way he will not waste his time and not making a bad impression on other people as well. The most selfish person will lie often about themselves doing stuff just to benefit them instead of others. Even though he knows certain things are wrong, but because of his selfishness, he chooses to trust the lies. The purpose of lies is maintaining social connections, protecting loved one’s feeling and being plain selfish. Sometimes a person does not want to hurt
Sadly, people who are truly themselves, and stick to their values and beliefs tend to be alone and get overlooked often, but that’s not their problem. Just because some people use their brain, it doesn’t mean they’re boring. People who can't enjoy their life without alcohol, drugs, partying, and all their friends, are much more pathetic than people who can enjoy life without all
The addict has morals to begin with, but become so lost in the happiness their addiction provides them they begin to value their morals less. For example, an individual may have always valued a certain relationship. This relationship could be between their spouse, children, or even a very close friend. Suddenly, this individual spends less time on this relationship and instead builds a relationship with their addiction. Many advertisements use relationships as a way to sell products such as cigarettes and alcohol.
Only when we interact with our loved ones, we show our selfless side because we care. But what about others? Why can’t we show a similar kind of selfless side or act from our higher-self rather than our ego-self with everyone we interact with? For one, it is difficult, because it is easier for us to achieve operate from our ego-self as it belongs to the lower world, hence easy to achieve, unlike the higher-self which is present at a notch higher level, for which we need to consciously work. Another reason could be that most of us, don’t usually think much before behaving in a particular way at a particular time.