With regards to him mentioning that he has nothing to offer his girlfriend , and of course again the fear of rejection, we know that he has the resources to fulfil a managerial position however his fear of upsetting others is preventing him from applying. It is also worth looking at why there is this excuse of him not being able to spend time with his work colleagues due to him visiting his mother, is there a guilt factor involved where he feel he should not displease his mother. Is it a question of whether she has an unhealthy hold on him where it affects him to such a degree that he can’t change the day he sees her? Does he already feel inadequate when facing his mother this statement that she would pick on him more than usual seems to suggest that he is avoiding conflict and does not have the courage to stand up to his mother. Upon making analysing this cases study and filling in the some gaps
The reason he doesn’t go is because that is the day he visits his mother in the home she lives in, and she would never understand if he changed the day and would pick on him even more than usual. He would love to go out with them on another night but fear that, if he asks, they will say no. He would love the manager’s job because then his mother would see him as more successful and maybe give him more respect. He has a sort of girlfriend whom he would like to marry but feels he does not have much to offer her at present and anyway she might say ‘no’. He comes across as a gentle man who is very aware of the feelings of others and afraid of what they might think of him.
As a result, the inability to balance time between his job and family led to the failure of his first marriage. Another source of conflict was his inability to trust his staff members, supervisors and foremen . There were heads of departments that should have provided him with reports and feedback about the work progress since he is the vice president, but he preferred to do everything by himself. He was strolling around the organization. During his strolls, he was listening and looking and keeping in
I think that this is | | |good characterization, but I don’t think a dad wouldn’t get mad at| | |what he did. I know that my dad would yell at me if I did that to | | |my room, so it left me kind of confused as to why he did that | |“He counted his money…minutes before” (33). |This shows that Alex is a pushover. For some reason, he can’t say | | |no to Morgana. I think it is because he is scared to look like a | | |coward in front of her.
Counselling course year one Student: Melanie Edmonds Tel: 07976214935 e-mail: melaniejedmonds@btinternet.com Assignment Four October 2011 Essay Title: “Using the case study provided at the end of the module identify and explain the client’s issues and devise a course of treatment for him, taking into account any ethical issues.” 2,300 words “Using the case study provided at the end of the module identify and explain the client’s issues and devise a course of treatment for him, taking into account any ethical issues.” Introduction This assignment considers the possible issues that are affecting Mr X and the possible reasons why he is suffering from these issues. Within the assignment consideration is given to ethical considerations that would need to be made in working out whether or not it would be appropriate for me to work with him. The assignment goes on to offer a possible course of treatment with due care being considered in keeping him central in this process, to ensure that he is worked with as an individual, so as not to be prescriptive in the work with him. A conclusion is offered in summary of the main findings of this case study and the limitations within which this case study is set. From the summary given on Mr X it would appear that several areas that he presents needs further consideration and investigation.
This is hard for him to comprehend. If Chris can’t understand body language or emotions, and can’t take those non-verbal hints he won’t know if someone is angry or happy or relaxed. If he happens to make his boss angry, for example, he won’t realize it and could lose his job if he doesn’t make a change. Also, Chris doesn’t understand the concept of “chatting.” He doesn’t get why people would have conversations about nothing in particular. However, chatting is a way to get to know people and is a part of everyday life.
His wife, Helen, loves him and tries to make him feel better by going on saying that someone will come to help them, but Harry knows that no one is going to come and he also knows that he is going to die. He tries to tell this to Helen but it hurts her to hear this and she is not ready to believe it. Harry never loved Helen but with death nearing, he realizes how much she loves him and so doesn’t want to have an argument just before he dies. He doesn’t want to eat nor does he want to move his cot at night because he knows that it is useless, but just because of Helen he eats a little. He can feel death around and his only regret was that he couldn’t follow his passion of writing.
Larry does not want his father around and he wants to be his mother’s companion. This theory does not fit into the story because Larry does not want to kill his father, rather he wants his father to move out and leave their household. In the end Larry also feels bad for his father and wants his little brother to go away.
He would like to go for a management job at work but feels like something is stopping him and he would also like to go out with his colleagues but feels that if he changed the day he sees his mother she would not understand. He would like to ask his girlfriend to marry him but is worried that she will say no and that he does not have much to offer her at present. He worries about what people think of him, even though he is a nice person who thinks about the feelings of others. The Initial Consultation During the first meeting with Mr X, I would be aiming to collect as much information about him as possible. I would ask about his health and any current medication.
Cohabitation can never be right Reason 1 (The view I disagree with) To be living together suggests that you are in love with that person, and want to be closer to him/her by living under the same roof. It is not the same as being married, where you have an on-going relationship. Instead, it is known as romance without relationship, which according to today’s society and statistics, lead to arguments and conflicts, and eventually leads to being separated. But why does this happen? This is because couples who are cohabiting have not built a strong enough relationship yet, and therefore become more and more distant as they argue about the smallest of things.