The first thing that makes a good parent is not how you discipline your child or what classes they take, but it is to show that you care about them. Rex and Rose Mary do have interesting parenting methods, but like all loving parents, they treat their kids with love and care and not like nuisances. Rex has a very vivid imagination and before bed time, he shares some of it with his children who in turn look forward to his stories: “Tell us a story about yourself, Dad” we’d beg him”(Walls 24). Rex’s stories must be extravagant to have the children “beg” for him to tell them one, meaning that they enjoy his stories a lot. In other words, Rex cares about his kids and puts in effort to come up with these stories, just to make them happy.
Encouragement is also a very important factor in this process. In 2 Thessalonians 2: 16-17 it states, “May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave his eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.” Overcoming Rebellion Rebellion is defined as a refusal of obedience or order. Many people don’t like the idea of giving control to anyone but themselves. This can hindered a person greatly because God is in control of our lives and knows what our plan is. If a person continues to deny what God has for them, then their lives will not be happy.
It’s beneficial as there are male and female role models available for the children, and it gives the parents more control of how their children are brought up. Another strength is that there’s less interference from wider family members however this can also be seen as a negative aspect, as other people are unaware of what’s happening and if there was any problems within the family and therefore it’s difficult to identify neglect. This also makes it difficult to seek professional help outside of the family. Another disadvantage of this privatised nuclear family is that children are only exposed to one set of values and so are influenced to become like their parents in the future as they have no exposure to other behaviours of different families. A criticism of this
There are many ways that we can affect our personality depends on who influence your life or identity. This is real important to people, even more important to young generation who just started to build their lives. Their personalities are immature, so it is important to who should they looking as a “role model”. If a person who really do not get along with their family, they might feel lonely and felt that he or she would not get enough love or attention from their parents, then that person’s personality could fact by their parents. So they might be coward, not confident about what they are doing, and maybe they do not know how to give the love or love the things.
Instruct the family to be more positive. Try to see the good in what is happening. This will help deal with the stress easier. Make family time to do something fun and forget about other problems for example game night, sundae night, etc. Family time does not need to be an expensive day at a park or zoo but time spent laughing and talking.
In the Middlesex documentary, Noah was very confident in what he believed and very outgoing. He seemed like a normal kid trying to live a normal life but in a different perspective. When the cameras were directed towards him and he was asked questions such as,” Are the children unkind to you?” Noah’s response signaled that children are aware of his feminine tendencies which looked like it made him uncomfortable, but at home Noah seemed comfortable to be himself around his family. From observing the video of Noah and his parents, it doesn’t seem that Noah obtained his feminine tendencies from something in his environment such as abuse and neglect. His family is very supportive of his choices and who he is.
I’ve ran across it in real life and noticed it, and it wasn’t something I liked seeing I felt like the parents are stupid if they can change how their child is being raised and where but they chose not to move them. Anderson also speaks on how respect is such a powerfully loose used word in the code of the streets. When Anderson furthers his essay he makes distinction of the different types of families in the streets. The first is “decent”; he spoke on this with the intent of expressing the families that does everything in their power to make sure but their parents work hard and are willing to sacrifice for their children just so they will have, more classified as the working poor. Those who try to excel and go above and beyond usually deals with a lot while doing so, so thus for most people just work extremely hard to stay where they are now.
Having a strong work ethic and becoming successful is very important, but caring about other people and going out of your comfort zone to solve problems is equally important. Dedication to helping others should go hand in hand with the dedication people have to personally becoming successful. By simply taking the time to be interested in others, the world could change for the better in so many ways. If people were more open minded to what other people had to say, tragedies such as such as school shootings would severely decline. After analyzing the characteristics Americans possess I have come to realize there is much room for improvement, but I have faith in the American
It is not that they demand too much from their kids but they expect too little. Parents try so hard to provide their children’s needs to make them happy and become their kid’s best friend that they forget about being a real parent. A parent who knows what is best for their child should not be afraid to say “no”, “The mistake that many parents make today is not that they’re too strict but rather too lenient”. They should discipline and set limits to consumption and teach their children the value of a
The will again realise that the teacher understands their individual needs and will feel comfortable and relaxed in their company. When adults and children are not using effective forms of communication this can cause misunderstandings and a child will be left feeling ignored, worried and angry because their individual needs are not being met. Also if effective communication is being used it can help people, young adults and children to set out and understand the necessary and important boundaries within the school environment on a daily basis. If those boundaries are understood by all involved then a more positive environment is set. Non verbal forms of communication can also help to create a positive relationship.